Do You Or Your SO Have A Fetish? >>PG13<< (couple, definition)

[sportsfangal]

I never said anything was wrong with what people like. I just didn't agree with being considered a "fetish". I have a different understanding of the word, I guess. People will have different opinions.
If someone is attracted to me, it would nice to be considered attractive for the right reasons, that I am a person, not my skin color. Sure some men may "prefer" black women, but I consider that a preference, not a "fetish" for black skin. Just as men who love breasts, cleavage, etc.

Originally Posted by lionking

You being black,probably have met either a black woman or man that dated only white or visa versa,I'd say that is more preference than a fetish.

While some may have a fetish in the sense that is all they can be turned on by for me as a example have always been a boob lover and voluptuous lover.While I do and can find women not like that attractive there is no denying that a round curvy body with cleevage sets my sensations on fire.And what's wrong with that?...nothing.I like what I like.

Of course the person they are matters also,it is not just her body parts that matter,but there is that physical attraction that does matter.So is it a fetish?,in a loose term yes,in textbook terms no because personality and all that still matter.

[musicwriter]

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

I never said anything was wrong with what people like. I just didn't agree with being considered a "fetish". I have a different understanding of the word, I guess. People will have different opinions.
If someone is attracted to me, it would nice to be considered attractive for the right reasons, that I am a person, not my skin color. Sure some men may "prefer" black women, but I consider that a preference, not a "fetish" for black skin. Just as men who love breasts, cleavage, etc.

makes perfect sense to me. I think like an earlier poster said, some people are using the word 'fetish' way too loosely.

[musicwriter]

Originally Posted by Boneheaded

Have fun, enjoy your kinks, get crazy, but keep it legit, don't let anything control you.

That last part is the biggest thing, it is a problem when you let a fetish control you, rather than the other way around.

[lionking]

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

I never said anything was wrong with what people like. I just didn't agree with being considered a "fetish". I have a different understanding of the word, I guess. People will have different opinions.
If someone is attracted to me, it would nice to be considered attractive for the right reasons, that I am a person, not my skin color. Sure some men may "prefer" black women, but I consider that a preference, not a "fetish" for black skin. Just as men who love breasts, cleavage, etc.

I know what you are saying,and agreed that a person should be judged as a person not as a "fetish".I'm just saying when someone considers you attractive for the "right" reasons part of that reason will be visual more than likely.

[Degenerate]

Of course we do. For the sake of definition, a "fetish" is an object that is not considered to be sexual from a mainstream perspective.

For example, if you wear leather or latex and get off on it, the leather and latex are the fetish.

I think people who don't have fetishes are weird, so that pretty much tells you where I'm coming from

[TheImportersWife]

Originally Posted by Boneheaded

Have fun, enjoy your kinks, get crazy, but keep it legit, don't let anything control you.

Originally Posted by musicwriter

That last part is the biggest thing, it is a problem when you let a fetish control you, rather than the other way around.

Easier said than done when you have a fetish...hence having a fetish.

I think it's rather difficult for some people to understand when they don't have a fetish themselves.

[TheImportersWife]

Originally Posted by musicwriter

makes perfect sense to me. I think like an earlier poster said, some people are using the word 'fetish' way too loosely.

When I refer to fetish, I'm referring to sexual deviances.

A short list: The Fetish List

[TheImportersWife]

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

I never said anything was wrong with what people like. I just didn't agree with being considered a "fetish". I have a different understanding of the word, I guess. People will have different opinions.
If someone is attracted to me, it would nice to be considered attractive for the right reasons, that I am a person, not my skin color. Sure some men may "prefer" black women, but I consider that a preference, not a "fetish" for black skin. Just as men who love breasts, cleavage, etc.

If feet and breasts can be objectified, then why not skin color?

Of course we all want people to be attracted to us "for us", but the fact remains that there are people who focus on specific traits and get off on it...in fact they need that trait to get off.

[Huckleberry3911948]

yes fat man waddling all in black with thinning hair slicked back. im tellin ya that is just as good as it gets, next best thing if you are male is rosie o'donnell.

[carlitasway]

Originally Posted by Mr.Cat

My secret fetish is...






















































































































































































































































































































































































































































women's chunky arms and chunky thighs.

Heh, you'd have a field day with me.