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Old 03-21-2009, 04:04 PM
 
Location: VA
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I bet if I would have started this thread it would be deleted for not being PG13 so I guess it sucks to be me, huh?
It's not who creates the thread. It's where the thread goes.
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Old 03-21-2009, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Under a bridge.
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I bet if I would have started this thread it would be deleted for not being PG13 so I guess it sucks to be me, huh?
It only sucks to be you if you want it to suck being you. You are in charge of your life.
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Old 03-21-2009, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Well, since this is still going, and has not been deleted, I`ll throw my .02 in.
Men just need to find the RIGHT SPOT! Bha ha ha !!!
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Old 03-21-2009, 09:49 PM
 
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Statistically approx 10% of women can't orgasm at all.
Could you live with that? What would be other determining factors in your ability to live with an anorgasmic woman vs. not?

Cut from mayo clinic website:
Definition
Anorgasmia is the medical term for regular difficulty reaching orgasm after ample sexual stimulation, causing you personal distress. Anorgasmia is actually a very common occurrence. About 15 percent of women report difficulties with orgasm, and as many as 10 percent of women in the United States have never climaxed. Even women who orgasm regularly only climax about 50 percent to 70 percent of the time.
To be honest. This would wierd me out.
My wife would have one and only one...pretty much every time we had sex.
Last gf would have 1-2+ every time (giant long-lasting variety) and um....another friend is more like 3-6 per (no Im not making that up.)

If I have a fetish, (per other thread) it's giving my partners O's and it would really bother me.
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Old 03-22-2009, 07:52 AM
 
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I'd like to thank the moderator for moving this back.

I suppose I'm not surprised that the preponderance of replies are of the - this can be fixed variety.

But I'd like the men to try to imagine - what would a life be like with a woman who can't? Because as a woman talking to other women I think the mayo's stats are right. For some women, physically, it just doesn't happen. Not sure why, no sensitivity, something.
Thank you Mathguy and the others that said it would or wouldn't bother them.
How much would it bother you to spend the next 30-40 years with a women who was willing to have sex but couldn't get to Ohio? Would it be a deal breaker?
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Old 03-22-2009, 08:18 AM
 
Location: Texas
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I'd like to thank the moderator for moving this back.

I suppose I'm not surprised that the preponderance of replies are of the - this can be fixed variety.

But I'd like the men to try to imagine - what would a life be like with a woman who can't? Because as a woman talking to other women I think the mayo's stats are right. For some women, physically, it just doesn't happen. Not sure why, no sensitivity, something.
Thank you Mathguy and the others that said it would or wouldn't bother them.
How much would it bother you to spend the next 30-40 years with a women who was willing to have sex but couldn't get to Ohio? Would it be a deal breaker?
Yes probably. The satisfaction of bringing your SO to Ohio woud be missing and I would feel selfish as a lover.
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Old 03-22-2009, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Under a bridge.
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I'd like to thank the moderator for moving this back.

I suppose I'm not surprised that the preponderance of replies are of the - this can be fixed variety.

But I'd like the men to try to imagine - what would a life be like with a woman who can't? Because as a woman talking to other women I think the mayo's stats are right. For some women, physically, it just doesn't happen. Not sure why, no sensitivity, something.
Thank you Mathguy and the others that said it would or wouldn't bother them.
How much would it bother you to spend the next 30-40 years with a women who was willing to have sex but couldn't get to Ohio? Would it be a deal breaker?
Not a deal breaker at all...but she would have to be as understanding of my angst as I would have to be of her situation.
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Old 03-22-2009, 12:37 PM
 
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I'd like to thank the moderator for moving this back.

I suppose I'm not surprised that the preponderance of replies are of the - this can be fixed variety.

But I'd like the men to try to imagine - what would a life be like with a woman who can't? Because as a woman talking to other women I think the mayo's stats are right. For some women, physically, it just doesn't happen. Not sure why, no sensitivity, something.
Thank you Mathguy and the others that said it would or wouldn't bother them.
How much would it bother you to spend the next 30-40 years with a women who was willing to have sex but couldn't get to Ohio? Would it be a deal breaker?
It would bother me. Not to sound falsely selfless, but it is the absolute best thing about sex. I am lucky to be with a woman for whom that has never been a problem, and I just don't see how sex would be very sexy without it, or them.

Would it be a deal-breaker? Not at this stage of the game, but truthfully I don't think we would have gotten to this stage of the game if our sex was not wonderful, and for me when a woman orgasms, deeply, strongly, there is nothing sexier.
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Old 03-23-2009, 02:19 PM
 
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So women who can't end up alone. Isn't that a double whammy?
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Old 03-23-2009, 02:36 PM
 
Location: Texas
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So women who can't end up alone. Isn't that a double whammy?
Being that this has to be PG-13 this is kinda hard. But is there anything that even gets close to Ohio. I mean do you have a reaction at all? Is this something you can work on. Forgive my ignorance on the medical 10% I have just never met a woman I couldn't satisfy. There has to be a way to wind your clock up enough for time to carry you to Ohio.
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