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hi folks, i am faced with a srange but true situation. It all started after dining out one Friday night. On our way home we stopped by her parents house briefly and we both had a few drinks (glass of wine). We drove back back home safely and went to bed. I love my wife dearly. But what she did unintentionally questions our relationship. It's pretty common for my wife to snore and talk in her sleep, but what she said (in her sleep) approximately 5:50am i was NOT ready For. I wonder how many of us believe in dreams. For what it's worth, 2 days ago on my day off work, i was asleep and had a dream that i punctured 2 tires, So i was trying to find a way to tell my wife i needed a ride without (upsetting her). Suddenly the house phone rang and during the conversation she mentioned that one of her co-workers told her she had a nail in her tire. After this happened i told her about these dreams i've been having that's somehow connected to real life (e.g the passing of my grandmother).
Well 2 days later, in the early morning hours, my wife speaks in her sleep....."Trust me, if he leaves we f**king" After i confronted her she said she was dreaming that i was cheating on her with a "white Girl" and she was telling her girlfriend, "if he leaves, best believe i'm f**king" just to get even. But i know exactly what i heard. I am so digusted by this, it ruined my whole day. Off all her thoughts (unconscious mind) why those words. Is this a sign? Am i being Paranoid? thanks for your comments
Forget it. I babble all night in my sleep. No big deal. One AM the phone rang, I must have been dreaming. I asked one of my customers if he thought the sun would still come up. LOL LOL LOL
We say nonsense in our sleep. It means nothing. I remember one night, when my sister was about 9 or 10. She sat up in bed and shouted "BEEP, BEEP...THE CARS" and promptly went back to sleep. Of course I was wide awake having been startled out of sleep. She used to mumble all kinds of things in her sleep. Most of it nonsense.
Don't read too much into people who talk in their sleep. Lots of people do talk in their sleep and I don't think it means much. When I was trying to quit smoking I was taking Chantix and the dreams I had were off the charts strange and had I talked I probably would have been committed! Seriously...dreams are said to have meaning but the meaning is never what we think it is. Only one who can probably read into a dream is a professional so.
You sound to me kind of like you don't trust your partner and worry a lot about her cheating, right? Unless she has given you reason to mistrust her, I would back off or you could push her in that direction. Relax, talk about your dreams with your partner and maybe she will share hers too..
Don't read too much into people who talk in their sleep. Lots of people do talk in their sleep and I don't think it means much. When I was trying to quit smoking I was taking Chantix and the dreams I had were off the charts strange and had I talked I probably would have been committed! Seriously...dreams are said to have meaning but the meaning is never what we think it is. Only one who can probably read into a dream is a professional so.
You sound to me kind of like you don't trust your partner and worry a lot about her cheating, right? Unless she has given you reason to mistrust her, I would back off or you could push her in that direction. Relax, talk about your dreams with your partner and maybe she will share hers too..
While Connecitcut Pam is newer to the forum she speaks much truth, and I look forward to her postings.
My first husband used to talk in his sleep AND I could talk to him and he would reply back to me. He told me in such a sweet voice that he loved me so much.
It turns out he really didn't, even though he said he did in his sleep.
Dreams are odd, crazy and uncontollable. Sometimes people from the past pop in them, sometimes people you see everyday, sometimes people you don't know at all. Sometimes it's situations you've been through, sometimes situations you are scared of, sometimes situations that you've never thought of.
Dreams rarely make much sense anyway. Most people know they had a weird dream and it sort of makes sense to them, but then when they try to describe it - it makes no sense at all.
No, you're not being paranoid at all. There's something here not right- and I think you know it. If it were me, I'd record her sleep and see what shows up on it later. Also, buy some little spy type security cameras and place them around the house where she won't notice them. You might even need to hire a "private investigator" to keep track of her for a few days and report back to you. These things are better off gotten to sooner rather than later. Oh yeah, one more thing, start hiding your assets as you will only lose them in any potential divorce. Why should SHE get anything?
Yep, something is really wrong here...
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