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Old 03-20-2009, 10:21 AM
 
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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A few things come to mind when reading this thread:


4. You can pretty much ignore what most women on City Data say in regards to relationships, if what you're after are hot, young, twenty-somethings. Reason? Most of the women here are middle-aged and quite beyond their expiration date. Based on profile pics, I see very few attractive women here. I wouldn't let anything they say bother you.

well, that's certainly an ignorant remark.
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Old 03-20-2009, 10:32 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Wow I totally disagree with this guy. There are a number of really attractive women on C-D. I have also found ages to be really varied.

Besides there are some beautiful women here regardless of how they look on the outside!
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Old 03-20-2009, 11:43 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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There are MANY beautiful, intelligent and conversant ladies on CD. Sounds like someone feels threatened.
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Old 03-20-2009, 12:37 PM
 
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I suggest he turn gay upon the snap of my fingers.

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Don't cry, little Artsy. I'm empathetic and compassionate up the yin-yang. Yes, it's clear that the OP has had some rough experiences, no "maybe" about it. He was set up on blind dates with pregnant women and pining welfare moms. I agree with whomever said that maybe he needs new friends. My point stands that being an angry misogynist is not going to win the hearts of fair maidens.
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Old 03-20-2009, 12:38 PM
 
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Some posters can be very abrasive though, let's be for real.

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There are MANY beautiful, intelligent and conversant ladies on CD. Sounds like someone feels threatened.
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Old 03-21-2009, 12:37 AM
 
Location: James Island, SC
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Thank you, gentlemen of C-D
(NOT V_A or the OP)
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Old 03-21-2009, 12:39 AM
 
Location: James Island, SC
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To be honest outside im a much more positive person and dont take my self esteem issues or bitterness towards nto getting women into the public,most women think im quiet but pretty sweet so that isnt my problem
Again, I don't buy that. You can't hide the way you feel.

This sounds like the racist teacher who felt he could hide his attitudes from the diverse students in his class, then complained that the minorities acted up the most. Self-fulfilling prophesies.
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Old 03-21-2009, 01:12 AM
 
Location: Glendale
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I'm glad I'm not single

Good thing too... since I am older and beyond my expiration date

And if we are to be ignored...perhaps you should find someplace else to spread your love, V_A. Cause it's doubtful we are going anywhere.
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Old 03-21-2009, 11:38 AM
 
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Thank you, gentlemen of C-D
(NOT V_A or the OP)
That's another thing. Why is it that when a male is honest and upfront, regardless of whether you agree with what he's saying, that he gets branded as not a gentleman?

A gentleman is someone who is polite, respectful, and carries themselves with a modicum of 'personal professionalism', for lack of a better term. Not to toot my own horn, but I've been and done all of the above. Now you may not like what I've shared, or the additional comments I've made on the topic, but that doesn't make me any less of a gentleman just because you don't like any of it. Just means you're (A) on the defensive, because what was said describes you, or (B) attempting to, as someone mentioned, defend your "fellow women".
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Old 03-21-2009, 11:48 AM
 
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Just because your loathsome attitude drives women away, doesn't mean there is something wrong with THEM. YOU are the only common denominator here.

very, very, very well-said

the common denominator in all your problems, crises, upsets, bitterness, and complaints....is you

nothing personal, the same is true for every person on this planet

if you don't like what you see in your life, then start taking some responsibility for it. any time you blame any one, or any thing, or any institution, or any gender, "out there" for your own personal unhappiness, you are not taking responsibility for your own self and your own life. You have victim and drama written all over you and who wants to sign up for that?

it is a very simple equation....what you sow is what you reap. What you put out there, is what you get back. If your life is bitter, it's because your thoughts are bitter.

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