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Old 03-18-2009, 02:17 PM
 
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I asked my boyfriend the other day what is the most important thing for a woman to be good in bed and he said the desire to have sex. The more a woman wants it, the better she will be. Then all that other stuff like positions, style, movement, sounds, experience, etc...

So what is the #1 thing you consider that makes a woman good in bed?
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Old 03-18-2009, 02:19 PM
 
Location: Mountain View, CA
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I think your BF is on to something. I can't imagine more of a buzzkill than a woman acting as though sex was a chore, or acting as though she was only doing it for me. SHE needs to want the sex, and ME, as much as I want the sex, and her.
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Old 03-18-2009, 02:20 PM
 
Location: Land of 10000 Lakes +
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Your boyfriend is right on. She has to love it and all will be well.
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Old 03-18-2009, 02:22 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I asked my boyfriend the other day what is the most important thing for a woman to be good in bed and he said the desire to have sex. The more a woman wants it, the better she will be. Then all that other stuff like positions, style, movement, sounds, experience, etc...

So what is the #1 thing you consider that makes a woman good in bed?
I think if you say something pervy or erotic to her and she grabs you by the back of the head and says "THEN GO FOR IT".
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Old 03-18-2009, 02:22 PM
 
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As you get older, priorities do change. My number one consideration these days is that she doesn't hog the blanket.
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Old 03-18-2009, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Fiji
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I asked my boyfriend the other day what is the most important thing for a woman to be good in bed and he said the desire to have sex. The more a woman wants it, the better she will be. Then all that other stuff like positions, style, movement, sounds, experience, etc...

So what is the #1 thing you consider that makes a woman good in bed?
Desire is right up at the top. Another thing, for me anyway, that is important is for the woman to be willing to try different things, different positions, etc...to mix things up every once in a while.
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Old 03-18-2009, 02:32 PM
 
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I think Desire is #1 who wants to be with a women who hates sex or the clock watchers who think 5 or 10 minutes is the limit and after that it becomes a nuisance..

Most mens sex drives is pretty healthy so if there with a women who hates sex theres gonna be problems..
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Old 03-18-2009, 02:32 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Desire is a huge thing. If she is really wanting it, she will work as hard as you do. Nothing worse than having to turn into Spanko to get an oh or an ah. Don't be afraid to tell him to "Get it Papi"!
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Old 03-18-2009, 02:34 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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Well I'll tell the turnoffs,does it because she wants a baby,doesn't like the lights on,only considers oral magic as foreplay,doesn't like to use her boobage as a place to park myself and worst of all goes ewwww to my LK icing from said topics I just said..

And said above I have experienced with a couple very short lived ex girlfriends............
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Old 03-18-2009, 02:42 PM
 
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enthusiasm, passion
good kisser (which really comes down to paying attention IMO)
fitness. Softness/cushion is all good but I know from experience that once you get past a certain point it just doesn't work for me
not lazy
not disgusted by any part of the male body

enthusiasm dwarfs the rest in importance though
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