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Old 03-20-2009, 07:58 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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I think Frank Sinatra said it best in Luck be a Lady...

"A lady dosen't leave her escort
It isn't fair, it isn't nice
A lady doesn't wander all over the room
And blow on some other guys dice"

I've had that happen a couple times, last date with either girl. One I almost left at the party, but I thought Id try to be the gentleman about it.
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Old 03-20-2009, 08:11 AM
 
Location: Orlando
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Ok....Sorry Cat man but I'm curious.....

What is YOUR definition of flirting?

Is she a very friendly outgoing person and that's what attracted you to her in the 1st place?
(this one ranks up with "my girlfriend is a stripper but I don't want other guys looking at her.")

Is she just laughing and joking to funny comments?

Or.....

Is she giving them "the eyes" ?
Is she letting them think she's available?
Is she paying more attention to the other guys than you? (only honest answers allowed...not what you imagine)



I married a jealous man...this is why I ask.
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Old 03-20-2009, 08:13 AM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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If I was still extremely attracted to her and she was willing...have the wild sex I want to with her, realizing that's probably all it's going to be. If I still wanted to date her after, it would then probably become an issue.

You said "date", not "dating".
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Old 03-20-2009, 08:28 AM
 
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...what would you do?

See if I could get a good threesome out of it.
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Old 03-20-2009, 08:28 AM
 
Location: southern california
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my daddy said a woman that tries to get you to fight over her with other men should be dumped asap.
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Old 03-20-2009, 08:36 AM
 
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Been there ...

on a date to a party where she apparently ran into a couple of guys that she'd been wanting to meet .... and ignored me (although she wouldn't have gotten invited to the party if it hadn't been for me taking her), and really started "flirting" with another guy, making it very obvious that she was "available".

hey, no problem. I visited with a couple of my friends there and when it was time to leave, I left. I'm sure she didn't miss me ....

No jealousy here; if she was that disrespectful of me on a date, then she'd be that disrespectful of somebody else, too. Not what I want in a date, thanks. Better to have found out without having some further involvement and greater disappointment later on.
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Old 03-20-2009, 08:38 AM
 
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my daddy said a woman that tries to get you to fight over her with other men should be dumped asap.
A wise man.
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Old 03-20-2009, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Chicago, Illinois
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I'd take her out again if she was hot and cool with me. I just wouldn't take her as seriously as I would other girls. Maybe she's just a flirt.
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Old 03-20-2009, 09:48 AM
 
Location: The land of milk and honey...Tucson, AZ
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I would pretend like it never happened and put her in the friends with benefits category.
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Old 03-20-2009, 09:50 AM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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from this girl perspective and I can be a flirt. If I flirt with other guys while on a date it could mean a few things... one I am not that into the guy I am with and want to have fun/the date is boring, two I am having fun and it is just a natural result or three I am having a really great time and feel very safe and secure (protected) with the guy I am dating.
Now there are rule in flirting while on a date or even in a relationship. 1.1- always let the other guys know you are on a date / with someone else. 1.2 let the guy you are dating know that you are his girl/date. ( kind of a dance with the one who brought you) 2. Never take it past casual flirt. 3. never flirt in secret/behind your date's back. 4. if another guy crosses the line... take 'em out! Normally I do it myself with a few well chosen words for everyone close to hear. 5. never flirt to make another guy jealous. Not cool.
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