Describe for me a PLAYER

[Stac2007]

I recall a number of years back a young woman I worked with was not too bright. Her husband to be broke off their date and went out with his friend and two other young women. When she found out at work she told me. I told her outright that her man was a player and she should find a guy who will treat her right. She then began to argue with me that her man was not a player. Yeah sure, what ever is what I said back to her.

[thriftylefty]

I guess there all levels of players even the glamorous TV version. On the opposite end of the spectum there is simply a guy who for some reason can't or will not make a committment but still loves to be in the company of women. back when I was affraid to commit, it wasn't that hard to convince three or four girls that they might end up "Being the One." some of them were fully aware of the others. I think with me it was after the tragic slow loss of my mother between the ages of 17-20, I figured love and loss were a package deal. I felt I was as much being used by the girls as I was using them

[temptation001]

I dont like playas. They are liars and dont care about anything other than themselves. Gross.

[NotARedneck]

The less this topic is covered, the more office gossip there is. We are really being mean to bring this up again.

Originally Posted by CaydenJ

Who's being mean? Totally confused.

OP and the rest of us for continuing this thread. By explaining players, perhaps there will be fewer women who become the object of gossip. But don't hold your breath!