Steve Harvey's 90 day rule (American, personal, relations, African American)
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i would wait that long. I think its smart on the womans part, and i would trust her more because she doesn't sleep around very easy. The harder the labor the sweeter the fruit? llol
90 days before sex! Lets say thats the equivalent to 20 dates. If it was someone I was romantically interested in and I didn't put out in 10 dates/numerous phone conversations and texts she would feel rejected and probably wonder why I didn't want her! She would probably think I was gay or didn't have a funtioning penis. I remember turning down a woman for sex when I was young, thinking I was being noble (moms advice came into my head). You would have thought that I told her she was a fat skank right to her face! She said she had a new guy about a week later!
Harvey is a cheap sob and should stay on finacial topics which he is good at. Maybe 90 days to revisit if you should continue the relationship!
Women don't owe men sex. A man who is looking for a girlfriend will find the strength to get through the 90 days. In the interim, he will take the time and trouble to get to know the woman. When they do have sex it will be more special. I'm not trying to slam a man who doesn't want to wait. There are plenty of women out there who don't believe in waiting, he should have no problem gettting what he wants. The problem lies in demanding "IT" from a woman who has decided to wait.
Steve Harvey shouldn't be giving relationship advice based on his track record. He isn't a pro matchmaker, or someone who studies human relationships at a professional level, etc. He should just shut his trap.
When did everybody become so focused on sex? It angers me incredibly seeing the comments above (which are for the most part plainly stupid - since when could human beings be compared to cars?) criticizing the idea, saying that it is too short. Before you start having sex, you should at least get to know each other personally and emotionally, which for most people takes longer than 90 days. Sex without knowledge of the other person is trashy and immoral. It's the reason why STDs are so widespread today, the reason why most "unwanted pregnacies" exist, the reason for the epidemic of fatherlessness, etc.
I'm Catholic. I'm practicing and orthodox, so I believe in waiting until marriage (i.e. 400 - 1,000+ days). However, even if I wasn't, I would still think this rule to be too lax.
So, according to him, women should wait 90 days before they give up the "benefit package". If Ford Motor Company can make people wait 90 days for theirs, we should be able to do the same, since what we have is the be all, end all of benefit packages. It is the reason men wake up in the morning.
What do you think, fellas? Would you respect a woman more if she took her time giving you the goods? Would you wait 90 days? Ladies, do you think this would help acquire a better quality of man?
You want to take Relationship advice from a guy who cheated on his wife .. as the old saying goes when a man who is out chaseing skirts is not the man you should take any marriage advice from ..
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