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Well, I have to say, if MOST men cheat, who are they cheating with????? WOMEN!!!!
Ha! Good point.
Not all men cheat. I feel sorry for women whose only experience has been with people who have hurt them. I'm not blaming the victim, because it's not their fault, but if it happens over and over again, maybe they should re-evaluate the type of men they're dating.
I don't think anyone should put up with cheating. Why would you. Some of you guys say divorce is too easy and people work through cheating. These are strange times, maybe all times are strange (throughout history) , things changing. Women't lib , but we aren't liberated. We get married and have babies (can't change that, its the women who always will- I know, duh) But this is not the 50s, w/ home makers and please your man, live for your husband blah blah blah. I do not think a cheater should have a 2nd chance unless the circumstances are truely extraordinary, maybe there's an exception to the rule, but if they do it once and you forgive them, why would they not do it again? Maybe some will say oh, if the guy is really sorry blah blah blah. Why stick around and allow him the trust and opportunity to even do it again. He had his shot with you, Id move on. And yes, I have a crappy marriage and yet I don't move on (cheating is the only thing , besides hitting me- Id be out if either of those happened, so I think, the only 2 things he doesnt do) so I know it's hard.................But scr*w that no forgiveness , he still has a wife who's good to him and not leaving him -it's like he got away with it. Leave and good luck.
The OP needs to move on, she obviously, from all of her threads, will never forgive him and move on. She needs to move on and find a new man and the husband needs to find a new woman.
oh and women (mostly young ones, some change as they get older, some don't) have affairs with married men , but the men are the ones who made the commitment to the wife (or vice cersa, I know wives cheat, too) it's not as much the other man/woman's fault as it is the spouses. I don't think all men cheat and Im becoming more cynical........... Ive only had 3 boyfriends, married the 3rd, and only the 1st was a cheater- was I just lucky in that area?
The OP needs to move on, she obviously, from all of her threads, will never forgive him and move on. She needs to move on and find a new man and the husband needs to find a new woman.
Aren't most gay men hot???? They were always hot when I was single
Don't worry, they are still HOT even though your married now!
Why God, why??????
Have I been hanging out with Artsy too much??
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