Was dating easier now or in the 1950s? (man, kids, 2015)
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When pining for the 1950s, or for an even earlier time, assuredly we're not enthused about an era before telephones or birth-control or private ownership of motor-vehicles or civil rights.
Wait...
...the 50s WERE a time before Civil Rights.
So yes, some here definitely are pining for a time before Civil Rights.
My mom's friends' (parochial school) teachers actually said that. And paced among the dancing couples to physically put a hand between them to show how much space they had to leave.
Hot times!
My grandma used to tell me how couples would have to keep a balloon between them while they danced, lol.
It sure lookalike a ****ton better in the 50s. Damn, that was a beautiful time. From the dress, to the vehicles (sigh) to the homes... That is what MY Heaven will look like should I arrive. Turquoise and white, Peach and black, and.. a 1952 mint green.and white Olds Holiday in the driveway
I think things are very superficial nowadays with the internet and all. Multiple choices for women looking for the man that doesn't exist promulgated by some Notebook fantasy. Let's watch a Hallmark series or two to see this man in action. I could practically write the script myself.
Back in the 50s they didn't have the internet so they met more in person. I think things probably were better back then in that sense. People were opportunistic and took what they got lol.
I think things are very superficial nowadays with the internet and all. Multiple choices for women looking for the man that doesn't exist promulgated by some Notebook fantasy. Let's watch a Hallmark series or two to see this man in action. I could practically write the script myself.
Back in the 50s they didn't have the internet so they met more in person. I think things probably were better back then in that sense. People were opportunistic and took what they got lol.
That's the one thing I think (or have heard rather since I wasn't alive then) was A LOT better in those days.
Nowadays, we have TOO MANY choices with the internet, social media, dating websites, dating apps, etc. People may not settle down because they may think someone better is around the corner.
Even though sadly, white supremacy is frowned upon today and domination of (unwilling/trapped) females is largely underground now, he gets ALL the sex he wants and his house is nice and clean.
Yes I am able to get all of the sex that I want and my house is routinely clean.
Yes I am able to get all of the sex that I want and my house is routinely clean.
It would still be better if women did it.
Huh?
Are you saying it isn't women who do the cleaning for you?
Or it isn't women who have sex with you?
Maybe you can get your housecleaning dude to wear a skirt so you can imagine it's some chick cleaning your place. As for suggestions on that second part, well...dude, you're on your own there, am backing away from that one. But GL, anyway. Hope it all works out.
Real fun & games (sarcasm). And some of you guys thought it was easier back then?
Not really. But I have heard well-informed and well-meaning people say that it was easier for people of average looks and average ability to find someone. Today, both men and women seem to have standards so high that I'm amazed anyone finds a mate.
And the latest trend, to stay home and surf for dates on the Internet, seems counterproductive, even if the ability of computers to sort large databases makes it easier to find someone with a lot of common interests. Sometimes you just have to get out of the house and meet people face to face.
If a woman is not having babies, cooking, or cleaning, then what do I need her for? I'm able to get sex fairly easily and I have tons of friends and am close to my family (so I don't need companionship). I also don't care about appearing successful in this regard (never post on Facebook, don't brag to my friends about these kinds of things, etc).
You sound exceedingly happy with your life! Not at all bitter. Any woman would be lucky to have you. What with the cooking, cleaning & popping out a baby every now & then, it sure sounds like a dream. And to be denied companionship as well, OMG, where do I sign up?
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