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We all know in society, that this is the image of a normal person:
- good looking
- talkative and funny
- physically strong, and can handle themselves in a fight
- intelligent, and if not academically so, then has wisdom, street smarts, common sense or knowledge of how the world works.
- not pedantic, dull or geeky
- not mundane
- has no bizarre or weird interests/hobbies
so, is this the type all people should aspire to to get dates?
i have a lot of these, like fighting, intelligence, no weird hobbies, good looking, but not all of them.
We all know in society, that this is the image of a normal person:
- good looking
- talkative and funny
- physically strong, and can handle themselves in a fight
- intelligent, and if not academically so, then has wisdom, street smarts, common sense or knowledge of how the world works.
- not pedantic, dull or geeky
- not mundane
- has no bizarre or weird interests/hobbies
so, is this the type all people should aspire to to get dates?
i have a lot of these, like fighting, intelligence, no weird hobbies, good looking, but not all of them.
We all know in society, that this is the image of a normal person:
- good looking
- talkative and funny
- physically strong, and can handle themselves in a fight
- intelligent, and if not academically so, then has wisdom, street smarts, common sense or knowledge of how the world works.
- not pedantic, dull or geeky
- not mundane
- has no bizarre or weird interests/hobbies
so, is this the type all people should aspire to to get dates?
i have a lot of these, like fighting, intelligence, no weird hobbies, good looking, but not all of them.
Do not aspire to be anything more than who you are. I am a firm believer in the statement "there is someone out there for everyone"...in my case, I had 3 "someones" which says alot. Everytime you try to be what you think women want it makes you not embrace who you are and then you become obnoxious. You ask why obnoxious?? It happens because you are going against nature.
I use to date this guy who looked like ALF...not kidding...walked like a duck and looked like ALF; not that this matters but I think he was a tad insecure with his looks...which did contribute to his attitude. When he was with me, he was sweet, sensitive and affectionate. We would get out in public and to impress his friends, he would do a 360 and try to be the funny guy, talked dirty, was loud and would get right in people's faces when he talked with them trying to make them think he was their "bestest friend". Result? Everyone who knew him thought he was an a-hole to the nth degree....and truth be told..he was. He was walking around trying to be someone he wasn't. We all have irritating things we do and "pieces" of our personalities that could use some tweaking...but for the most part, I believe we all have a good side to us that doesn't need to follow any set rules of how we should be.
Women can tell in a country minute if a guy is acting to impress or truly putting himself out there as he is....be yourself.
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Is this the key to getting a date?
