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Old 04-11-2009, 11:45 AM
 
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There's a girl whom I've worked with for a few weeks. We email eachother alot, just joking/friendly emails...usually not work related.

She left town for a few days to visit friends. We don't have eachother's cell numbers, so pretty much I didn't expect to hear from her until she got back.

We both are friends on facebook, and she got my cell number off of that. I found this out when she text me late one night saying she got my number from facebook.

Two other times, she sent me a text asking how my night was going, etc. I didn't respond, because these were around midnight, and I was already asleep (worknights).

So a question to the ladies...why text a guy you don't really know all that well late at night? Why not just call? It's obviously not a booty call considering she's 2000 miles away, and definitely not loneliness as she's with 3-4 of her best girlfriends. I should also mention that she sends me sightseeing pictures as well. Are these hints of attraction, or just being friendly?

I'd like to think it's hints of attraction, but I find that hard to believe considering we barely talk. These are things you do with your best friend, no some random guy you've known for 2 weeks.
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Old 04-11-2009, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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If she is spending time to look up your number, and sends you texts late at night, my hunch would tell me that she likes you, maybe a little attraction in there to boot!
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Old 04-11-2009, 11:53 AM
 
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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I think the best way to know her reasons is to ask her
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Old 04-11-2009, 02:08 PM
 
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hmmm...weird...I'd like to ascertain, perchance, did u meet that girl on this network ?
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Old 04-11-2009, 02:09 PM
 
Location: Seattle metro, WA, US
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I think the best way to know her reasons is to ask her
... gently! Not like, "hey, what's the deal with those late night texting" Not like that. Or better yet, go mini-golfing, laser-tagging, rub shoulders, rub elbows and see what happens. Take dance lessons. That's if you are interested to find out what's up there.
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Old 04-11-2009, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I think the late-night thing is a bit odd. She may be waiting until her boyfriend or husband is asleep to text you.
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Old 04-11-2009, 03:54 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
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I think the late-night thing is a bit odd. She may be waiting until her boyfriend or husband is asleep to text you.

or perhaps she's on a night schedule, such as myself (due to work). i have friends that are on a similar schedule, and text me at night.. but i don't think anything weird about the ones that text me at noon.
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Old 04-11-2009, 03:57 PM
 
Location: SE Florida
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Late night texting? My guess is that she does it when she has been drinking. Happy hour texts.
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Old 04-11-2009, 05:48 PM
 
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She likes you.
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Old 04-11-2009, 07:55 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Hmmmm ... after midnight, out with friends, has your number ... drunk maybe?
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