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Old 04-16-2009, 12:40 PM
 
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Default spin-off from that thread about women knowing...

... within the first few moments of knowing a man if they'd sleep with him.

If there's 2 men. One has a face you like but a blah body. The other has an average face (not ugly) but a well-built body, one that has spent some time hitting the weights.

IF you felt the guy is one you could see yourself sleeping with, what would influence your decision - face or build?
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Old 04-16-2009, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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... within the first few moments of knowing a man if they'd sleep with him.

If there's 2 men. One has a face you like but a blah body. The other has an average face (not ugly) but a well-built body, one that has spent some time hitting the weights.

IF you felt the guy is one you could see yourself sleeping with, what would influence your decision - face or build?
For the woman who only wants one hot night of sex, OF COURSE she's going with the guy with the good bod who lifts weights.

HOWEVER, far more women are actually looking for good guy relationship material - not just a sex partner. If the face is right, and you can tell A LOT by the face, I'm going with that guy.
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Old 04-16-2009, 12:55 PM
 
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We all know the answer to that.
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Old 04-16-2009, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Seattle metro, WA, US
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There was a study what type of guys are perceived as good sex partners vs those as good life partners. Turned out totally different jobs.
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Old 04-16-2009, 12:58 PM
 
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There was a study what type of guys are perceived as good sex partners vs those as good life partners. Turned out totally different jobs.
what were the results?
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Old 04-16-2009, 01:29 PM
 
Location: USA
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I prefer "okay"-looking guys to great-looking body builders. The average-looking guys try harder in bed and they work harder at relationships. I remember years ago getting intimate with a really good-looking guy. All he did was lay there. I didn't know that a MAN could be a "dead lay" until this guy. My nickname behind his back was "The Dead Fish" after that. I'm sorry. NOBODY is THAT good looking where you think all you have to do is lie there and the woman will do ALL the work.
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Old 04-16-2009, 01:33 PM
 
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what would influence your decision - face or build?

If they don't open their mouth and have no body language? Because a snotty personality comes on you so fast... and hits you regardless of face/body.
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Old 04-16-2009, 01:49 PM
 
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... within the first few moments of knowing a man if they'd sleep with him.

If there's 2 men. One has a face you like but a blah body. The other has an average face (not ugly) but a well-built body, one that has spent some time hitting the weights.

IF you felt the guy is one you could see yourself sleeping with, what would influence your decision - face or build?
Without knowing anything else at all...without speaking to them?

Definitely build. An average face is just fine with me. I'm more concerned that someone takes care of themselves.
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Old 04-16-2009, 02:13 PM
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Location: South Bay Native
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Face for me - I have to look at it while we're bumping, right? I don't want to look at some Carrot Top looking dude (who happens to be ripped, btw) when I could be looking at Jason Lewis.
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Old 04-16-2009, 02:46 PM
 
Location: The O.C.--Soon, ATL
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I might walk away from both of them, or be interested in both, but all depends upon their personality, intelligence, and attitude, ie. how they treat me and other people, etc. And yes, that it something that I do take note of in the first 30 seconds of meeting them. (But I leave room to change my mind. )
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