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Old 04-20-2009, 12:50 AM
 
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I am sorry but I am dying of laughter. I can just imagine "Let's Get it On" starting to play as the lights dim!
Actually that particular event it was a cheezy 80's song which didn't really fit the situation too well. And she was trying to dance to it as well while stripping down. Wish I could remember the song, but it's been seven years so I have mentally blocked it out.
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Old 04-20-2009, 01:00 AM
 
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Somewhere out there killer2021 is beating himself up for trying so hard to get women by lieing at them, when all he has to do is tell them to buzz off.
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Old 04-20-2009, 01:01 AM
 
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Yup and believe me it was hard. When you are sitting there chilling with your female roommie on the couch and then the music goes on and the lights go low and next thing you've got a naked gal on you with her hands running everywhere it's just about crippling. Nature starts to take over. The only way out was to think about all the hundreds of guys that have gone before and that is the way out cause you don't want to be #451.

I remember standing in a room of coworkers one time and they were joking about the one girl being an easy girl. I knew all of them had paid their visit to her at some point except me. I guess it's nice to have common ground with people but there is a certain common ground I don't want to share with everyone I know.
I would have blue balls
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Old 04-20-2009, 01:14 AM
 
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you know tho that everytime you have sex with someone,
you also are having sex with all the other people she/ he has been with...blek!!!
besides,
i hate to really depress everyone and bring up this suject,
but what about what God thinks??
shouldnt His thoughts on the matter come first?
i mean really-
He will be the next face you see after you have sex with someone
and catch who knows what horrific infection that will eventually kill you....
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Old 04-20-2009, 01:19 AM
 
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you know tho that everytime you have sex with someone,
you also are having sex with all the other people she/ he has been with...blek!!!
besides,
i hate to really depress everyone and bring up this suject,
but what about what God thinks??
shouldnt His thoughts on the matter come first?
i mean really-
He will be the next face you see after you have sex with someone
and catch who knows what horrific infection that will eventually kill you....
i am non religious so i dont care what he thinks
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Old 04-20-2009, 01:44 AM
 
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I have a male friend who refuses to sleep with girls known for having lots and lots of sex with lots of guys because he's terrified of getting a STD, condom or no condom. Don't blame the guy - or you!

I'd rather have a STD -as long it's not AIDS- than a depression because I can't get laid.
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Old 04-20-2009, 02:25 AM
 
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Yep, exactly!
WHICH brings into play my favorite motto "Don't **** where you eat"

That way it doesn't really matter if you sleep with him and he turns out to be a tool, he's not in your circle anyway.
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Old 04-20-2009, 05:05 AM
 
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Be honest.
I have a mental rule that if I'm genuinely interested/attracted to guy and want to have a relationship with him, then I keep things slow on the sexual front.

If it's a guy that I don't really care about, I'm not as restrained (even though I use that term loosely because in general, I'm not the promiscuous type at all).

Is it true that once a guy knows he can get sex from a girl easy, he'll never see her as girlfriend material?

Sorry, if this topic has been discussed to death!
Just in my opinion.. it is more like, if I know she's been with way too many guys, I'd have a hard time (psychologically/emotionally) being the guy who married her or took a relationship w/ her seriously. It is just not a pleasant thought you associate with your SO.

Whether or not it is easy for me is not such a problem, one way or another.
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Old 04-20-2009, 06:39 AM
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I was once attracted to and dated a girl who was known to have been around. The bonus was it made other women think I must be really something if I can please a girl who has been around. I even let a prostitute “cool out” at my place for about two weeks when I was in college. She turned out to be quite the domestic type. Call me sentimental but I have a special fondness for lose women.
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Old 04-20-2009, 08:13 AM
 
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I am not going to date a gal that is super easy just from the perspective that if some gal hits on me in a bar it's basically just for sex and that's not what I'm looking for.

With that said, in some of my relationships, things have gotten out of control early in the dating process. Probably earlier than I would prefer to some extent but if I have gotten a feel for the person and vice-versa and there is this huge attraction...well, things can happen.
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