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Honestly with me its not!!! I'd wait years if I had to for a girl I was dating or in love with!! ANd I looooove sex but Id choose love and building a relationship over sex!!
Sex can get in the way of building a relationship if a relationship becomes sexual too soon. Even an old relationship can benefit from a time of abstinance. When my husband I were in counseling working on a reconciliatoin the counselor told us to abstain. Sex can get confused with love.
If I find out my 16 year old is behaving like this, she's going to live with her uncle half a continent away. He's scary. 16 is way too young and your attitude is a shining example why. Your relationship is built on sex. What kind of marriage is that?
One of the things our marriage counselor STRONGLY advised was that my husband and I NOT have sex while we were working on our marriage. It's hard to get to know the person when you're just worried about sex.
My wife and I dated for seven years, through college and have been married for 14 years. We have a good healthy relationship. Besides if you don't think teens aren't having sex at 16 you are in another world. We met in church and our families were old friends. We believe in all the same things and yes we have great sex. It was not mystery to any one when we got married so long ago. Besides 50% of all marriages don't last more than two years. If you ask me Ivorytickler is pretty envious because I love wife dearly and my affection for her has not changed since she was 16. God bless her. If you ask me lady by you having to see a marriage counselor says my wife and I are far better judges about love and sex. We don't have a terrible marriage as you do.
LOL "high and bond" ..... who are you, Bill Shakespeare?
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Originally Posted by At1WithNature
oh yeah. it's the glue that holds it together. you can express your feelings in a million different ways all of the time but the high and bond you get from sex is unmatched IMO.
Ted, yes I do get it. Being female has nothing to do with it. While our relationship is very active...it's not an issue with us. If we want to...we do it. Neither of us is unfulfilled in any way. It's better now than it ever was... And sure, you can ask my husband if you want. We have one of those relationships filled with...whats that word...oh! communication!
As I said...the time is very quickly approaching that being intimate will be impossible for some time. And I highly doubt that will change a thing in our marriage.
WET - Are you currently in a LTR or marriage? If not...Maybe that is your issue...
I just don't see how you can say sex is over-rated. Bad sex can be pretty good. And sex with a person that you love and are passionate about...sex can make your toes curl up...
LOL "high and bond" ..... who are you, Bill Shakespeare?
could you tell that i just got some when i wrote that...LOL
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