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Wow. Just wow. I guess to each his own, I'm just kind of stunned by that. I'm not one of these guys who thinks "the crazier, the better" or anything, if a woman isn't feeling it or if she's just the quiet type, then I'm certainly not going to demand she scream or anything. Maybe it's the women I've dated. Still, I've been with a few who told me up front they were quiet and it turned out they weren't.
I guess I just never thought of it as anything a guy would specifically seek, just a thing he'd accept -- if she was quiet, she was quiet; if not, then just make sure to get Neosporin afterward so it doesn't scar as badly as last time.
Makes it easier to have sex when there are people in the next room. One girlfriend would bite me on the neck to avoid making noise.
Imagine: You see this amazing girl on the beach with a white bikini on, showing off her amazing rack and her perfect stomach. Her long brown hair blows back in the wind as she walks toward you. Suprised, you flutter a little and say hello. She replies hello back, only for you to hear a voice that is 10x as deep as yours.
While this won't happen to most people, I thought it would be an interesting topic to see what is a common turn off for men / women when they seek their significant other.
Mine include: Smoking, loudness in restaurants (esp. if they're nice), bad English, extremely clingy, easy, fake, and no goals
What are some of your major turnoffs? It should be interesting to see which are (and aren't) the most common.
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The usual things: arrogance, excessive sarcasm, lack of empathy, disrespectful, mean to kids/animals, laziness, self-centeredness, rudeness, verbally/physically abusive, anger issues, etc. etc.
Also:
* Bad skin
* Moles/warts/birthmarks on face
*tattoos anywhere above the collarbone or on the legs
* teeth that look like they haven't been brushed in a week
*bad breath
*hairy all over
*gnarly feet
*smokes/drinks to excess
*full beards/chin-strap beards
* doesn't know how to kiss
* quiet as a church mouse in bed
* Talks about his exes constantly
* Uncomfortable with affection/saying "I love you"
* spends more time in front of the mirror than I do
*tighty-whiteys/boxer briefs/thongs
*flat ass
*narrow, sloping shoulders
* grossly overweight
*goes out in public looking like a hamper of dirty clothes
* pale, ghostly skin
*piercings anywhere but the ear
* Dark, tight designer jeans
* tons of jewelry
* Has kids and/or has to pay child support (sorry, being honest here)
* Conservative views
* Pouts and acts like a child if he doesn't get sex
* Bullies those who are smaller/weaker/younger..IOW, a coward
The usual things: arrogance, excessive sarcasm, lack of empathy, disrespectful, mean to kids/animals, laziness, self-centeredness, rudeness, verbally/physically abusive, anger issues, etc. etc.
Also:
* Bad skin
* Moles/warts/birthmarks on face
*tattoos anywhere above the collarbone or on the legs
* teeth that look like they haven't been brushed in a week
*bad breath
*hairy all over
*gnarly feet
*smokes/drinks to excess
*full beards/chin-strap beards
* doesn't know how to kiss
* quiet as a church mouse in bed
* Talks about his exes constantly
* Uncomfortable with affection/saying "I love you"
* spends more time in front of the mirror than I do
*tighty-whiteys/boxer briefs/thongs
*flat ass
*narrow, sloping shoulders
* grossly overweight
*goes out in public looking like a hamper of dirty clothes
* pale, ghostly skin
*piercings anywhere but the ear
* Dark, tight designer jeans
* tons of jewelry
* Has kids and/or has to pay child support (sorry, being honest here)
* Conservative views * Pouts and acts like a child if he doesn't get sex
* Bullies those who are smaller/weaker/younger..IOW, a coward
Oh well...I guess you and I could never date then.
Clingy
Liar
Judgemental about everything
Trust issues
Momma's boy
Bad with money
Hairy chest and man boobs
man boob... that was so funny
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Ok....that's different altogether, totally unlike the comment that sparked my response.
But I have one who isn't so bad. Bad enough, but I can deal with it. 
