Is a person selfish for turning down their SO when advancements are made for sex?

[2mares]

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

no it is called hating swimming forever. but with kindness but with patience but with help one can learn to love to swim again.

Oh, well. I love swimming. When I was 5, dad threw me out of the boat and told me to swim back. Yeah, I did. I though that might fall under spontaneous swimming since I hadnt planned for it.

[yellowsnow]

Yes, I do. I lived in a sexless marriage for years and I can tell you there's only so much rejection you can take before you stop trying.

Asking your mate for sex is a close, intimate, vulnerable place to be. If they turn you down too often it can ruin what you have together and poison the relationship.

[onihC]

Originally Posted by SKP440

Depends on the gender. As we all know its only considered a crime/offense/wrongdoing if a man does it. If you are a man and you turn down your Wife or SO for sex then yes you (the man) are selfish, however if you are a woman you (the woman) are well within your rights to turn down your Husband or SO for sex because when you give him sex it should be considered a gift to him, and as a Woman you and only you decide what happens to your body

I was going to say that. There were two threads not so long ago, maybe they are still around, about a woman who's husband didn't have sex with her and another one from a woman who didn't want to have sex with her husband. People's reactions to the threads were interesting.