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Hey, if he enthusiastically "reported for duty" with me after some anonymous person got him excited and "ready for action," I'd be fine with it. She remains alone at her computer while I'd be reaping the benefits!
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Originally Posted by Boneheaded
I think it becomes cheating if it is habitual, interferes with your sex life, is repeated with the same on-line lover, you ever try and make plans to see them IRL.
Internet affair becomes a real relationship or affair outside of cyberspace.
The computer has become an integrated part of most people’s life, we use them for work, play, shopping and when researching .
The same is true for cheaters, they look at websites about sexual performance, infidelity, how not to get caught, etc. etc. Many people are meeting and developing relationships
on-line. They are in chat rooms having on-line conversations, posting messages and visiting web sites to meet people.
Frequently these relationships grow from a cyber-affair into a real world relationship.
On line, you can be the person you want to be. Maybe better looking, richer, happier, etc., etc. and it’s safe to be that person.
You can type things on the internet that you would never say in the real world. In short, it gives people a place to fill a
lagging self-esteem or to compensate for the short comings of their real life.
Once you “meet†someone on-line who sounds exciting, sexy and interesting, you spend time learning about them and
fantasizing about how they look, how well they relate to you, etc. As the “relationshipâ€
goes on, the two get to know each other better and the real world begins to enter the conversations.
Trust develops because this is the person “you relate to†and it builds up as more time goes by.
It then gets to the point where they begin to be even more honest, sometimes totally honest, and an
internet affair becomes a real relationship or affair outside of cyberspace.
Of course it's cheating. Cyber sex is not just a fantasy, it's an intimate interaction between two people. And yeah, that's cheating. Porn does not involve any intimate interaction between the viewer and model(s)/actor(s) - unless of course you happen to know the models/actors in which case I might indeed consider it cheating - certainly, it crosses boundries that are inappropriate.
Hey, if he enthusiastically "reported for duty" with me after some anonymous person got him excited and "ready for action," I'd be fine with it. She remains alone at her computer while I'd be reaping the benefits!
I agree wholeheartedly.
Obviously, this is all about individual comfort level and personal definitions of what a relationship "is". So, with that being said, I will say that it doesn't really bother me personally if he plays around online, and purely online. It's a fantasy, pure and simple. When he comes back to me, for his reality, I know where his heart is.
S*x is s*x whether it's in person or on a computer. S*x is cheating unless you have an open relationship.
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She remains alone at her computer while I'd be reaping the benefits!
Internet affair becomes a real relationship or affair outside of cyberspace.
