Older men - Younger women (college, personalities, partner, relation)

[RobE]

I would go with a woman 5-6 years older than me and up to ten years younger than me. It depends on the individual. I'm not the hot young guy I used to be, either, so these days I'm more interested in women who I respect and who are loving than whether they look like Cameron Diaz. It's better to be with someone who is compatible more than anything else.

[Sweden]

Originally Posted by crystalblue

younger girls are nice to look at, but SO STUPID!!!

all they can talk about is the last party, their cell phone/car/bf, and whatever the current young woman chick drama on tv (ie OC, melrose...)

but man do they look cute.

See! You work your a** off in school, have no spare time for years, devote all your weekends and holidays to studying, and this is what you get?!

Shame on you crystalblue!

[Songbird42]

I was always attracted to older men..........I couldn't stand those boys with pimples on there faces who were all hot and bothered. I wanted to be treated like a lady and be wined and dined. At 15 went with a fella 22 we stayed together 4 yrs. At 19 met a 40 yr old divorced man, we fell in love and were married for 24 yrs with 5 children when he died.

I would never go out with someone younger than myself, I want and deserve
the finer things in life and usually older men can accomadate my needs.

[crystalblue]

theres a cutie a few cubes down from me. prob about 12-14 yrs younger than me(im 34).

im thinking i should ask her out

[Roaddog]

I think it just depends on the person, i get along good with younger people but i wouldn't want to date a 20 year old girl, i'm 49 and would date down to 35 or so. of course that would be if I was single.

[Pimpy]

"18 to 80, crippled or crazy."

Honestly, I don't think age matters a bit. I have a couple women on my radar screen right now. One is a lifeguard at my neighborhood pool who is barely legal ("legal" being the operative word) and one is a 37-year-old who has never been married and has never had kids. I am 25.

As long as they're hot and I enjoy being around them, I could care less how old they are. I don't see why anyone would.

[roamfree]

I date older guys. People have a problem with it but I don't. I pretty much don't care. The current guy is 55. I'm 29. No, I'm not looking for a "father figure" or have a father complex. I am close to my dad. I do not need another one. The youngest I have gone was a guy 4 years younger than me.

[DowntownJerseyCity]

My ex and I are 9 years apart (I'm 29, she is 20). I look back on it, and she was way too young.

I came home from work and when I told her how my day was, I got the deer in the headlights look. She had not a clue what I did for a living.

[mpope409]

Originally Posted by Hawkeye48

These days it really doesn't matter who is older or by how much. Life is just too short. If you find someone you click with go for it.

Granted it's not somebody else's child...

I personally have never seen a younger man-older woman relationship fail, but I think that men should have just as much protection from manipulative older women as young women do from dirty old men. Despite what a lot of us think, men do have hearts and they do have feelings.

Then again, in many circles, age is just a number. There are some young people whose wisdom exceeds far beyond some of those their senior.

[Ultrarunner]

In other words, when is a man to old for fatherhood.

Does it make a difference if his wife, 20 years junior desires children?