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04-26-2009, 09:33 PM
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1st Amendment, RIP!
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Tucson
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Originally Posted by BurtsBees
Well, thankfully I have alot more backing my side than she does. My character vs hers (fired from her jobs from flipping out, multiple fights, etc).
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Forgive me for stating the obvious, but WTH were you doing with her all along to begin with?!  |
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04-26-2009, 09:43 PM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: In my skin
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At this point, I wouldn't respond to either of them. Let them keep texting and save it all, just in case. No telling what she'll do when she realizes you're done.
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04-26-2009, 09:45 PM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Michigan
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Originally Posted by sierraAZ
Forgive me for stating the obvious, but WTH were you doing with her all along to begin with?! |
I was naive. Thought I could change her for the better. I sorta did. I got her a job, helped her get her grades on track, etc. And then I get this in return.  |
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04-26-2009, 09:46 PM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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Originally Posted by BurtsBees
I was naive. Thought I could change her for the better. I sorta did. I got her a job, helped her get her grades on track, etc. And then I get this in return. |
becoming involved with someone in the hope of 'changing' them is never a good idea |
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04-26-2009, 09:46 PM
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Lucky and blessed :)
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: wherever my husband is working
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Originally Posted by BurtsBees
I was naive. Thought I could change her for the better. I sorta did. I got her a job, helped her get her grades on track, etc. And then I get this in return. |
Burt my boy, that's what you get for trying to be a Knight in Shining Armour!!! Have you learned your lesson now??? REMEMBER, women looking to be rescued are not living in reality - find a woman who has already learned how to rescue herself  |
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04-26-2009, 09:59 PM
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Devout Atheist Humanist
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: MA
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Wow. Run far away from this psycho chick and don't look back! Be very lucky that she's the one the dumped you. If you begin to waver, just remember that elbow to your groin!! She's one scary biatch and I wouldn't even want her for my friend.  |
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04-26-2009, 10:00 PM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Michigan
878 posts, read 586,157 times
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Originally Posted by gatitosmommy
becoming involved with someone in the hope of 'changing' them is never a good idea
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That wasnt the initial reason for becoming involved. I really liked her from the beginning, and then I assumed the baggage later. |
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04-26-2009, 10:32 PM
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There's beauty in the solace of not giving a damn.
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Chicago
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Two words: drama queen.
If you can live with that, then all's good. If you can't, it's time to strongly consider moving on, because there's slim chance that this behavior will ever substantially subside. Which brings me to a related point: this isn't necessarily about age. I know women in their 60s who still act like this. So it's not necessarily about finding someone older, it's about finding someone who doesn't thrive on head games regardless of age.
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04-26-2009, 10:37 PM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
1,268 posts, read 426,527 times
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Originally Posted by BurtsBees
That wasnt the initial reason for becoming involved. I really liked her from the beginning, and then I assumed the baggage later.
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so, when all the negativity (from her) started to surface, that was your first opportunity to make a decision: accept it, or walk away |
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04-27-2009, 06:23 AM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Texas and loving it!!!!!!
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Originally Posted by BurtsBees
A funny little update. Her friend sends me a text saying if I leave my gf a long, extremely apologetic voicemail, get her flowers, and take her out to dinner, everything will be ok.
I think its time to find someone my age or older...this immature stuff is just ridiculous. |
Happy trails and march forward then start running and DON"T turn back or you might turn into a pillar of salt! |
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