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Old 04-28-2009, 08:12 AM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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People here think I am nutty, since i say people look at me and hate me. Would this put people off in real life?
Well since you are the one that wrote this....

Think very hard about what you said about EVERYONE giving you hateful looks. If they are ALL giving you scowls, then ALL of them are not reacting well to your presence and company.

When people smile at you, they are indicating that they might be interesting in a friendship.

So of the women you see, are they scowling at you or smiling at you? Back off from the ones frowning at you, approach slowly the ones that are smiling at you. And there is your short and simple answer.

And the solution is... to learn to make people smile at you.
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Old 04-28-2009, 08:14 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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I don't understand. Why? I am telling the truth. Why should I change for them? Why?
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Old 04-28-2009, 08:20 AM
 
Location: i liv in a town, on the world..lol.. wat about evry1 else?? hehe
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i think you sound fine!!! if a girl don't like you because she thinks you're a "nut" then she ain't your girl! if you be your-self then the right one will come around... don't worry!!
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Old 04-28-2009, 11:11 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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Everybody here now thinks I am a nut, but if people in real life do as well, will this put women off me?
If? Everyone already hates you, remember? Are you suddenly in denial?
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Old 04-28-2009, 11:17 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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What? I don't understand. Why?
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Old 04-28-2009, 11:34 AM
 
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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oh good grief
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Old 04-28-2009, 03:37 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Everybody here now thinks I am a nut, but if people in real life do as well, will this put women off me?


"REAL LIFE" There you have it, your busted.
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Old 04-28-2009, 03:47 PM
 
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Everybody here now thinks I am a nut, but if people in real life do as well, will this put women off me?
Yes.
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Old 04-28-2009, 04:22 PM
 
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Well since you are the one that wrote this....

Think very hard about what you said about EVERYONE giving you hateful looks. If they are ALL giving you scowls, then ALL of them are not reacting well to your presence and company.

When people smile at you, they are indicating that they might be interesting in a friendship.

So of the women you see, are they scowling at you or smiling at you? Back off from the ones frowning at you, approach slowly the ones that are smiling at you. And there is your short and simple answer.

And the solution is... to learn to make people smile at you.
I don't know how to.

No one scowls at my mom and dad when they are in public, and they don't smile at everybody.
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Old 04-28-2009, 04:24 PM
 
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Yes.
Why?
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