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I don't get this whole "karma" thing that keeps being brought up, so maybe someone can explain it to me. Are you saying that if someone does something wrong, eventually something bad will happen to them because of "karma"? If that's the case, is the spouse who's being cheated on also maybe receiving a dose of "karma" for something wrong that they did? Bad things happen to both good and bad people, so I just don't understand where "karma" comes into play. I guess I just don't really believe that what goes around always comes around. Maybe it will, maybe it won't.
It's just a belief that some people have. Sometimes I believe karma builds up into the next life and that is why they have to struggle. Other times people struggle just because of bad luck. So it's not always due to karma that a person has difficulties. I could be wrong, though, since I don't recall any past lives or anything.
You changed my story. The husband spent $1000 on his buddies. His buddies were lowlifes who were just along for the ride and didn't spend any of their own money. Your husband is just really generous with his buds. However, his buds did ask him where he got the money since they know he's not rich or anything, and he told them that it was your birthday present. And not one of them said he was out. They blew his money and YOUR money. Who is at fault here?
Still no relevance. How are they supposed to know it's for vacation? Sorry, but I think you were a mistress before and you're justifying the woman because you were her at one point.
I'd say there's a pretty good chance the women defending the woman in this case(shocking I know ) were mistresses themselves. The woman is equally at fault. There's no getting around it.
No need to get personal. I'm being as logical as I can to explain my points.
Still no relevance. How are they supposed to know it's for vacation? Sorry, but I think you were a mistress before and you're justifying the woman because you were her at one point.
I believe you are not listening to my points. You keep accusing me and getting personal. You need to get that out of your mind and "see" what I'm saying. Listen. Otherwise there is no point to this discussion.
No need to get personal. I'm being as logical as I can to explain my points.
Sounds like I hit a nerve. Why else would you be defending her? And you're not being logical at all. Your husband's buddies spending your vacation money does not hurt you in any way. It's disappointing, that's it. The woman sleeping with your husband(knowing he's married) is betraying you just like your husband is and could easily give your husband an STD that could be brought home to you. Both are equally guilty.
No need to get personal. I'm being as logical as I can to explain my points.
I'm with WackaFlacka on this. Idk why some people defend the woman even if at one point she had no idea the man was married. Point is both parties are responsible. End of story.
I believe you are not listening to my points. You keep accusing me and getting personal. You need to get that out of your mind and "see" what I'm saying. Listen. Otherwise there is no point to this discussion.
I see what you're saying. You're just wrong. Your points are not correct and favor women. It's a very sexist tone. Why is the husband guilty, but the woman sleeping with him that knows he's married is not as guilty? Why does she get a partial pass?
I'm with WackaFlacka on this. Idk why some people defend the woman even if at one point she had no idea the man was married. Point is both parties are responsible. End of story.
If she had no idea he was married, that's different. She's not at fault if that's the case. If she knows, she equally guilty.
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) were mistresses themselves. The woman is equally at fault. There's no getting around it.
