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Old 04-29-2009, 08:49 AM
 
Location: JAX
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Ok I must start off by saying in most cases I ma not a nice person people at my job or when i am out in public. Most of the time when people show up for an appointment with me dont don't give them any sypathy. Just yesterday I guy came here for testing late and I turn him away didn't even care to hear his excuses. But today, a after I started testing, I hear a faint knock on my room I wa readyb to tear someon head of. I walk to the door open it and see this beautiful women with the most innocent face my mood chnage inastantly and helped her catch up with the rest of the testers. I was nice to hear spoken with a nicer tone and everything I am such a hipporcrate and a sucker. didn't realize what I did until a hour later now I really hate myself for what I have done. Guys why do we do this to ouselves. Is there any hope for us?

 
Old 04-29-2009, 08:54 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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Nothin wrong with that.
 
Old 04-29-2009, 09:05 AM
 
Location: JAX
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I should have told her what I tell every other person... Your late reschedule but I was thibnking about was wow she is so hot! that is so pathetic.
 
Old 04-29-2009, 09:13 AM
 
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For the good of the species, Michael Carter.
 
Old 04-29-2009, 09:23 AM
 
Location: Houston Texas
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I dont know but I notice it all the time and for the most time it works to my advantage but

sometimes I am even annoyed by it because it makes me think they are weak.
 
Old 04-29-2009, 09:24 AM
 
Location: Texas
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The fact that you describe her as a beautiful woman, shows you were attracted to her. We will go further and do more for a potential mate. Women will start getting more dolled up as they progressively start feeling a guy. Maybe not major differences but she will spend just a little more time. It is basically the human mating ritual at its best. Be mindful of it and try not to beat yourself up. No worries.
 
Old 04-29-2009, 09:33 AM
 
Location: JAX
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Originally Posted by MyssaTx View Post
I dont know but I notice it all the time and for the most time it works to my advantage but

sometimes I am even annoyed by it because it makes me think they are weak.
Well thats just it im not weak at all. some call me ashole but sometimes I get cought off guard.
 
Old 04-29-2009, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Houston Texas
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Well thats just it im not weak at all. some call me ashole but sometimes I get cought off guard.
It's ok to be nice to people its normal
 
Old 04-29-2009, 09:46 AM
 
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OP, what you're saying is normal.

I'd think most men (subconsciously at least) treat attractive women better than ugly women. I do sometimes, even though I'm not lookist as such.

To me it is kind of a subconscious thing, since simply looking at an attractive woman makes me feel brighter inside.

It's an unfortunate part of life though, since a pretty woman one ogles at could be poison inside lol.
 
Old 04-29-2009, 09:57 AM
 
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It's ok to be nice to people its normal

its not nice when youre normally an ahole to people as the OP states.

see i treat women equal. im not weak, i wouldnt go out of my way to help a beautiful woman. if anything i would probably do less because theyre used to having men fall all over themselves. then again im not like most men,
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