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Old 07-29-2009, 12:39 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Mr.Cat View Post
Would you guys pay for it or would rather go celibate?
The point you miss is that all men pay for sex! How they pay is another matter.

 
Old 07-29-2009, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Norwood, MN
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Lets face it, a lot of men, married or not, are essentially paying for sex.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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I don't communicate well, I don't have much social status or anything to offer than can be of much value to anyone else.

I was resistant to the idea for years but even when I had some spending money and good looks, nothing was happening. Now that my youth has dwindled away and my earning power has stagnated and I am drifting further off to the fringes, I know many doors are closing on me, possibly forever.

So, what the hell, just take the money, pretend to like me and get me off! And maybe I can think about something else for a few weeks.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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The point you miss is that all men pay for sex! How they pay is another matter.

Don't confuse marriage to be a legal form of prostitution. Maybe some men are pigs but all.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 04:24 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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I think the government should adopt some form of legal prostitution here in the U.S. If it is monitored and kept clean just let it happen. Spouses should be given the legal right to know if their partner has been to a brothel. Letís face it sex is a biological necessity. Why should men marry some one just to have sex when the want? It would cut down on bad marriages and divorces.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 04:36 PM
 
Location: Mile High City
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LOL I tried explaining on a totally different thread that us women are all "prostitutes" one way or another. I got my head bitten off..Guess they didn't understand my point. Oh well..
 
Old 07-29-2009, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Reno
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i hate admitting this, but i could understand why a single guy (social or no social skills) would get a prostitute. you get to have sex without actually trying to date someone and spending money on them. it might actually be cheaper and less time consuming just to get an escort than to try dating someone just to sleep with them. i suppose you could just get a FWB, but it seems the easiest would be just to get a prostitute. they will do what you want them to do, you pick them based on how they look, you name a price, and they know when to leave.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 04:54 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Don't confuse marriage to be a legal form of prostitution. Maybe some men are pigs but all.
With marriage, the woman pays as well. So it doesn't count.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 04:55 PM
 
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i hate admitting this, but i could understand why a single guy (social or no social skills) would get a prostitute. you get to have sex without actually trying to date someone and spending money on them. it might actually be cheaper and less time consuming just to get an escort than to try dating someone just to sleep with them. i suppose you could just get a FWB, but it seems the easiest would be just to get a prostitute. they will do what you want them to do, you pick them based on how they look, you name a price, and they know when to leave.
Based on religious and moral reasons it's hard for me to be okay with paying for sex but I do understand it to a degree. I don't think I'd ever go that route but I guess it's always possible.

I do have a good friend in his mid 40's that admitted he goes to brothels in his home country(legal there). He's a decent guy that travels and is active, has women friends he lunches with and all that. Mostly he's past the point of wanting children or a wife so he pays for a roll in the hay and it works for him. No BS, no after the act hangups, no issues and as he says as a regular being nice and tipping them well he gets more enthusiastic "service" than from women in a regular relationship.

Food for thought I guess.
 
Old 07-29-2009, 05:18 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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With marriage, the woman pays as well. So it doesn't count.
Then you don't understand true marriage.
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