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No, in the overall perception most men can see the benefit to having a woman with personality and brains over the big breast 'dream girls" of fantasy mag fame.
I don't care what other guys like,to each their own.I'm just responding the comments about "can't wait to get them reduced" and how some have made guys who like a certain thing "shallow".
I'm not being mean to anybody,I'm just stating my likes,and that it is not some trivial consideration for me.That said I have known a few women I considered hot who did not have big boobs,but there is no denying that large boobs set a fire in me.
I did say that I like mine - I'm very happy with them in fact. I just said that I worry how they will look in 30 years is all. Plus I think women with small breasts can be just as attractive as women with big boobs. Both have their pluses and minuses, but while I have considered a reduction (mainly because they do pull on my back, and it's tough while exercising), it's not because I don't like them - I do. They're great!
I have 'huge knockers' and I hate them. Hate them with a passion. I absolutely cannot WAIT to get a breast reduction done, and I will be sittin pretty with small c cups. The unwanted and unwarranted responses I get aren't worth it. Guys hit on you assuming you're easy, girls don't want to be your friend because they think you're easy.
This is my battle too.
I hate wearing fitted clothing b/c of all the stares from both men & women, but if I wear looser fitted clothing, I look heavier b/c of my breasts. My husband LOVES me in fitted clothes to show my figure off, but I tend to get self-conscious about them.
I was at the supermarket the other day and wore a fitted henley. The amount of gawking was crazy!! (Of course being 6'1" adds to it.) I started wondering if I looked inappropriate, but then I saw all these other women of every size wearing fitted shirts similar to mine. Why should I consider myself anymore inappropriate then the others just because they have average or smaller breasts??? (These are the demons I fight inside my head every day. LOL )
Sometimes I feel I should be proud of my figure and show it off and other times I think my figure is inappropriate for daytime viewing.
See this is the problem with a consumer culture, we want everything to be set to our standards. I mean I can understand if we are talking about cars or something but breasts?? cmon guys! You gotta love em all!! From big and bouncy down to barely a handful, breasts are great. And to me there is no such thing as fake, if I can touch them they are real enough for me. And if this makes me sound like I am 12 well maybe theres something to be said for kids actually knowing what makes them happy while us adults lost our way somehow. I mean bottom line no guy who is single is going to turn down sex just because he prefers a different cup size. and if you're talking LT relationships breast size should not even be a factor.
Let me just say thank god for the variety of women out there that are attractive in completely different ways. Life would be so boring otherwise.
Ironicalyl, I saw a gal at lunch today that works on another floor that I've eyeballed a bit in the past. Athletic brunette...pretty...smallish up top...yeah she has it going on.
See this is the problem with a consumer culture, we want everything to be set to our standards. I mean I can understand if we are talking about cars or something but breasts?? cmon guys! You gotta love em all!! From big and bouncy down to barely a handful, breasts are great. And to me there is no such thing as fake, if I can touch them they are real enough for me. And if this makes me sound like I am 12 well maybe theres something to be said for kids actually knowing what makes them happy while us adults lost our way somehow. I mean bottom line no guy who is single is going to turn down sex just because he prefers a different cup size. and if you're talking LT relationships breast size should not even be a factor.
true enough, except for the LT relationship part, don't you guys agree that chicks with big breast seem to demand more attention, and seem to be a little bit more drama?
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