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Old 11-28-2010, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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Really?? Get over it..If you don't like it, don't go there and stop bitching about it
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Old 11-28-2010, 10:50 AM
 
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I havent read all the replies here. I used to be a dancer. ( I HATE the word stripper: disrespectful) & I'd say men visit strippers for
1) MOSTLY someone to talk to. Of course there is the obvious nudity, grinding even etc but the strippers who make the most $$$ can hold a convo.

I felt bad when guys complained abt wives "fatness', lack of sex etc.

And besides, prostitutes are too "easy". They sleep with you the very first time. Some strippers will sleep with clients but you have to work for it, dinners, shopping, tuition, rent/mortage then sex. Guys like that better than an easy lay.

EXACTLY!!!! Yes, there are good dancers are out there and how do I know that? I've been one for 13 years..
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Old 11-28-2010, 10:52 AM
 
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Default Something even more lame than prostitution: stripping.

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And you're just a shell of a man who doesn't know the whole story--and never will.
I was thinking that, but you put my thoughts into words so well. Thank you.
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Old 11-28-2010, 11:16 AM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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Really?? Get over it..If you don't like it, don't go there and stop bitching about it
Don't take it so personally, christ. Did I knock your profession at any point in my posts? No, I just said I don't like strip clubs.
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Old 11-28-2010, 11:18 AM
 
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EXACTLY!!!! Yes, there are good dancers are out there and how do I know that? I've been one for 13 years..
Looks like you are entering retirement age for strippers pretty soon.....hehe.
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Old 11-28-2010, 12:01 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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both outcomes are equally terrible. And it simply wasn't that great, I didn't get aroused (not even a semi). Porn is way cheaper
Live porn can be a change of pace, and you can practice with live women. Besides, I don't see any harm in a cute, nude chick walking up to me and wanting some more attention.
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Old 11-28-2010, 01:14 PM
 
Location: Centro Tejas
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There's so much over-generalizing going on in this thread that it's giving me a headache.

Very true!!!!

I mean, I'm one of those dancers using the money to provide a better life for myself. I do other things besides dancing; I fix computers too! Plus, college cost money, and I'm like 45 credits away from my bachelors (in science of broadcast engineering). Working in a retail store is not enough money to pay for my house, utilities, and save for tuition. Most of my customer are other strippers that are clueless about computers and don't know the difference between Internet Explorer and Firefox.

As a dancer, it really makes me sick the guys that come by trying to buying drinks instead of tipping me for dancing, and the ones that think I'm in the look for a sugar daddy. Worse than them? the ones that say "if you were my girl, I would not let you dance", as if I'm dancing in t to get hitch.

Dancing is a great workout, and it keeps me sane.
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Old 11-28-2010, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Centro Tejas
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EXACTLY!!!! Yes, there are good dancers are out there and how do I know that? I've been one for 13 years..

Hey, I know some older strippers that look waaaaaaaaaaay better than girls my age (I'm 22), so age is just a number.

Plus, there are some lesser looking older dancers who make more money than the younger, prettier dancers. I know, is sad, but true.

I know this old dancer (she's like 40), who has a nasty c-section scar, yet, she always make tons of cash, and have tons of regulars.
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Old 11-28-2010, 01:23 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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There was a thread a couple days back talking about why people go to prostitutes etc. Well here is a more interesting question, why do people go to see strippers?

I mean seriously. You are basically paying to see a naked girl dance around. She isn't going down on you or having sex with you. Seems like a great way to get blue balls. Watching an extremely sexy girl dance around knowing you'll never get to have her (unless of course she is a prostitute). Not to mention a major punch in the ego. You have to PAY to see a naked girl....

To top if off, going to a stripper seems even more ridiculous when you consider how much porn is on the internet FOR FREE.

I've only been to a strip club once and personally didn't get much out of it. Seemed like a pretty popular place for depressed married guys.


I never understood the point of strip clubs either because I would get all turned on and had to go home alone. And then you also had the option of a striper giving you a lap dance for an entire song whch was even more of a turn on. It would be easier just to have a STRIPPER come to you and paid them for a night of fun in your APT-lol
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Old 11-28-2010, 01:24 PM
 
Location: Centro Tejas
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I never understood the point of strip clubs either because I would get all turned on and had to go home alone. And then you also had the option of a striper giving you a lap dance for an entire song whch was even more of a turn on. It would be easier just to have a STRIPPER come to you and paid them for a night of fun in your APT-lol
Dude, those are usually called "call girls"; you call an agency, and they will come to you, and no sexual contact involved.
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