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Old 05-08-2009, 06:30 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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who is NJ201?

well, i don't see how i'm mistaken here.

The fact is normal people aren't laughed at. Most 29 year old guys are suave and nice and i want to be too. I'm too old to be this way, like a joke.
Stop playing with yourself while walking across campus and they wont make fun of you. Leave your little Willy alone!

 
Old 05-08-2009, 06:50 AM
 
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Artsyguy, The question here is "When" will he get professional help?
You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.
Well, i am going to call a psychologist today and arrange an appointment and ask her to help totally change who I am.

It is the only way, and I know I have to do it.
 
Old 05-08-2009, 07:15 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Well, i am going to call a psychologist today and arrange an appointment and ask her to help totally change who I am.

It is the only way, and I know I have to do it.

That's a good start, learing new ways of communicating with others will help you. I just hope you actually follow through here, then you have to stick with suggested recommendations or 10 yrs from now you'll still be on this forum posting the same old threads.
 
Old 05-08-2009, 08:17 AM
 
Location: Virginia-Shenandoah Valley
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I believe this OP is a troll and is just looking to stir the pot.
 
Old 05-08-2009, 08:35 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I believe this OP is a troll and is just looking to stir the pot.

That would be pretty pathetic if he is, all the more reason he'd need professional help.
 
Old 05-08-2009, 08:37 AM
 
Location: NorthTexas
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Default who do you want to be?

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Well, i am going to call a psychologist today and arrange an appointment and ask her to help totally change who I am.

It is the only way, and I know I have to do it.

I have a daughter your age and I remember what it is like to be almost 30. I think if you want to change who you are Samston you need to answer this question: Who do you want to be? then be it.

There will always be people greater and lesser than you, that is a fact of life.

I think you may have bought into the "tv land" idea of what life is. If so, you need to get out, travel, discover yourself. Good Luck young man!
 
Old 05-08-2009, 10:17 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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That's a good start, learing new ways of communicating with others will help you. I just hope you actually follow through here, then you have to stick with suggested recommendations or 10 yrs from now you'll still be on this forum posting the same old threads.
Which would totally suck because that would mean that in 10 years time I would still have to be hanging around here to impart my wondrous wisdom to Samston. I was kinda hoping that in 10 years I'd be on a yacht somewhere sailing around the Caribbean or the South Pacific. Please Samston - get some help so that my duty here will be complete!
 
Old 05-08-2009, 10:18 AM
 
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I will start with a few things:

- I went to class today and college, and the whole campus looked at me and laughed at me. I would tell my mom and dad this, and they would say "oh, you're imagining it!" What!!?! I'm 29 ****ing years old!!!! What man my age is laughed at like some public joke, if they don't have something wrong with them?

I ****ing hate them, and hope when they die, they burn in hell. I'm serious.

I'm going to cut my losses, and tell them "**** off!"

Life is short, and i won't spend my life being a public goof for their sake.
Grow up. You are a public joke if you're 29 and still clinging to this kind of pubescent nonsense.
 
Old 05-08-2009, 10:36 AM
 
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I have a daughter your age and I remember what it is like to be almost 30. I think if you want to change who you are Samston you need to answer this question: Who do you want to be? then be it.
i want to be at the same level as all others, whether mentally, physically, what have you
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There will always be people greater and lesser than you, that is a fact of life.

I think you may have bought into the "tv land" idea of what life is. If so, you need to get out, travel, discover yourself. Good Luck young man!
well, i know i have to change, is all.

who I am now is just a **** who nobody is really fond of. and i can see why since i reckon i'm quite dull, boring, and don't go to exciting places, don't hold engaging conversations, etc.

I reckon people look at me and laugh since they can kind of sense this and think "why should i get to know him? he's just a dick".

From now, 8th May 2009, i will be a new and normal person.
 
Old 05-08-2009, 10:38 AM
 
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Grow up. You are a public joke if you're 29 and still clinging to this kind of pubescent nonsense.
I know this is an insult, and i welcome it.

I do have to grow up. I am a man and should take responsibility for myself.
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