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Old 05-05-2009, 02:25 PM
 
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Honestly, I can't imagine not wanting to call you back by at least the next morning. I'll never understand how or why other guys do this stuff.
Yeah, me too, if I have sex with a woman the first time I'm likely to want to stay the night, and definitely see them the next day.
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Old 05-05-2009, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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I would almost guess this guy saw sex with you (and most women) as a challenge, and once you gave in, you ceased to be a challenge to him. That's just my humble opinion.
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Old 05-05-2009, 02:39 PM
 
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I would almost guess this guy saw sex with you (and most women) as a challenge, and once you gave in, you ceased to be a challenge to him. That's just my humble opinion.
Some guys are like that

Maybe he has been sick? Maybe he has been out of town on a business trip?
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Old 05-05-2009, 02:41 PM
 
Location: CA
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He's a jerk and he used you. You didn't do anything wrong here.
He was pushing for sex the first week because his whole intent here was to get laid & move on.
Sorry this happened to you...
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Old 05-05-2009, 05:50 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Somethings not computing here. If a guy is going to wait around 3 months and then have sex 2 or 3 times in the same night, then for him not to call or to act like a "dirt bag" doesn't make sense to me.

Three months of wooing you seems like a lot of work for just sex only. It would seem like if he only wanted that, he'd be able to find a partner without three months "work."
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Old 05-05-2009, 06:24 PM
 
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I never understood who wrote the rule that a male "has to call" within a set period after a physical interaction??? Why can't the woman call the man? We do we have to call all the time? Why do we have to call at all? Who comes up with this nonsense?
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Old 05-05-2009, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Somethings not computing here. If a guy is going to wait around 3 months and then have sex 2 or 3 times in the same night, then for him not to call or to act like a "dirt bag" doesn't make sense to me.
Same here... It just comes to show that all those waiting games are worthless anyway as far as outcome goes.
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Old 05-05-2009, 06:44 PM
 
Location: CA
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I never understood who wrote the rule that a male "has to call" within a set period after a physical interaction??? Why can't the woman call the man? We do we have to call all the time? Why do we have to call at all? Who comes up with this nonsense?
She did call....he hasn't called her back.
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Old 05-05-2009, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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Sounds like he just wants to have sex with a lot of other women.

It has nothing to do with you, you just wants sex with multiple women.

It's a guy thing.

I wouldn't be surprised if he was banging another girl why you and him were "getting comfortable".

my 2 cent
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Old 05-05-2009, 07:25 PM
 
Location: CA
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I wouldn't be surprised if he was banging another girl why you and him were "getting comfortable".
That's what I'm thinking also.
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