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Old 05-06-2009, 06:09 PM
 
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Why is it that all of my single friends always meet guys that have 3-4 kids by different women. And some of them have so much child support coming out of their checks that they walk home with a 200.00 check after working 40 hours a week plus overtime. Then when you go out on a date they have no money to enjoy themselves. This is a sad situation for the single women out there. Because there is already a man shortage, and then the ones that are available have baby mamma drama and child support issues. Geez when can the single ladies catch a break!
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Old 05-06-2009, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Gallatin Valley
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Is this mainly in the african american community? If so, date a white guy.
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Old 05-06-2009, 06:15 PM
 
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Is this mainly in the african american community? If so, date a white guy.

Hmmm easier said than done!
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Old 05-06-2009, 06:29 PM
 
Location: B'ham
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Is this mainly in the african american community? If so, date a white guy.
ROTFLMAO!

Maybe your friends need to expand their dating pool. Try a new bar, club, grocery store, church, etc. I dated a guy with a "baby mama" and that was enough drama to turn me off to guys with kids.
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Old 05-06-2009, 06:30 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Geez when can the single ladies catch a break!
As soon as the single men catch a break.

Back many moons ago when I was single, it was really,really, really, rough to meet a decent single woman. So many were single mothers.

I was young at the time and didn't want to be saddled with all of the extra baggage.

I never had a problem with kids per se.
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Old 05-06-2009, 07:11 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Your friends are fishing in the wrong pond.
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Old 05-06-2009, 07:33 PM
 
Location: Seattle metro, WA, US
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Your friends are fishing in the wrong pond.
Next time pay attention to the sign "Warning! Unsafe levels of bachelor toxicity! Swimming, wading, flattery bathing prohibited!"
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Old 05-06-2009, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
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Ok, so when do us guys who were screwed by the women we USED to be married to get a break?

Since the first person we married was unsatisfactory, and we still have a child/children we love, are we now condemned to being single/going to gymboree and hitting on other parents?

no wonder i can't get a date. quit being so god d@mn selfish.
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Old 05-06-2009, 08:42 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Is this mainly in the african american community? If so, date a white guy.
I wish racists would stay out of this forum. There are just as many tired trifling white men who have several children with several women.
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Old 05-06-2009, 08:55 PM
 
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I wish racists would stay out of this forum. There are just as many tired trifling white men who have several children with several women.
No kidding. I used to work in payroll and it was insane how many dudes are paying child support. I see some guy's paychecks and they get like 5,000 and after all the deductions they have like 250$.

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Why is it that all of my single friends always meet guys that have 3-4 kids by different women. And some of them have so much child support coming out of their checks that they walk home with a 200.00 check after working 40 hours a week plus overtime. Then when you go out on a date they have no money to enjoy themselves. This is a sad situation for the single women out there. Because there is already a man shortage, and then the ones that are available have baby mamma drama and child support issues. Geez when can the single ladies catch a break!
lol you aren't kidding when you say a man shortage. I believe the statistic for female african americans is that over 70% of their population is single. All the men are drug addicts, unemployable, criminals, gangsters or dieing from poor health.

women these days act as if good men are easy to come by. There are far more single, beautiful young women out there compared to successful men who don't have problems. So if you are a successful male you will have absolutely no problem getting a very good looking female. That is if you know how to work your game. Most guys these days get out of school where every good looking female couldn't give them the time of day so they have absolutely zero confidence with women.

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I wish racists would stay out of this forum. There are just as many tired trifling white men who have several children with several women.
I wish idiots who didn't know the statistics would leave. Stop pulling stuff out of your ass please. Read the CDC or census statistics please.
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