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I would like to know why you guys give a rat's ass. So, man meets woman with child. They date, go camping, laugh, have a good time, get married. A few more kids come along. They work, buy a home, go on vacation, garden, mow the lawn, renovate a room, take a few classes, bla bla bla.
Take that scenario and flip it a few dozen times from adopting fathers/mothers, to first loves, to folk with careers and having children late in life, etc.
Swan, Nutz, butter balls at large, what's it to you? I highly doubt JerZ's husband spends one second considering you. Why do you spend time considering him? Surely, you relate to your perception of him on some level, given this whole thing is really about you.
I also know it is not a myth because I have known some older women/younger men couples. On the other hand all of the young women I have known and seen out and about are with guys their own age. Nice try though.
Last edited by Keeper; 08-30-2010 at 10:35 AM..
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I also know it is not a myth because I have known some older women/younger men couples. On the other hand all of the young women I have known and seen out and about are with guys their own age. Nice try though.
sorry a couple examples isnt a majority, its not a "try", its the truth, we dont want cougars and men are signifiganlty older than their women
these younger men usually are settling,I can assure you of that
here we have raw science analyzed in 14 countires 22,000 people
Last edited by Keeper; 08-30-2010 at 10:35 AM..
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sorry a couple examples isnt a majority, its not a "try", its the truth, we dont want cougars and men are signifiganlty older than their women
these younger men usually are settling,I can assure you of that
here we have raw science analyzed in 14 countires 22,000 people
Who are you in a relationship with? More to the point, why are you so worried about women dating after 30? You are not a woman, so, why do you really care who they date? No, most men are not significantly older than their women. Look up the statistics on age differences between husbands and wives and you will see that I am right...it was already posted on here in an earlier post.
No, statistics show that, at least with marriages, the average groom is three years older than his bride. Three years -- not 15 or 20.
Your comment here is flat-out, provably wrong. Men (at least in the U.S. -- that's the nation I'm stating stats on) are not "significantly" older than "their" women.
That's not guesswork, it's not opinion, it's fact. You know. Fact? Remember "facts"? Real things that are true? No? Didn't think so. (sigh)
Who are you in a relationship with? More to the point, why are you so worried about women dating after 30? You are not a woman, so, why do you really care who they date?
Yeah, I'm wondering about this too. The nearest I can figure is that my post about how girls don't really (typically) "want" or lust after significantly older men, and that there's a cap on how old is still "sexy," particularly for the average U.S. aging male, made people SO uncomfortable that as a distraction technique, the tables turned.
But facts are facts...no matter how one freaks out over them.
You know what? I was wrong! Yes, I admit it. And here it is: The age difference between the average bride and groom is no longer three years. It's only one and a half years.
And you will notice, gentle readers, that these young mid-20s brides are not diving for men in their 40s...or even their 30s. Yes, these young hotties are going for (wait for it) young hotties (26-year-olds) and tying the knot with them. (Go figure!)
You know what? I was wrong! Yes, I admit it. And here it is: The age difference between the average bride and groom is no longer three years. It's only one and a half years.
And you will notice, gentle readers, that these young mid-20s brides are not diving for men in their 40s...or even their 30s. Yes, these young hotties are going for (wait for it) young hotties (26-year-olds) and tying the knot with them. (Go figure!)
You know what? I was wrong! Yes, I admit it. And here it is: The age difference between the average bride and groom is no longer three years. It's only one and a half years.
And you will notice, gentle readers, that these young mid-20s brides are not diving for men in their 40s...or even their 30s. Yes, these young hotties are going for (wait for it) young hotties (26-year-olds) and tying the knot with them. (Go figure!)
Truth is a *****.
those are questionable stats I just posted a study in 14 countires 22,000 that contradicted that, but whatver
he's right ,you just dont understand the alpha beta dynamic is the problem here , you answers hows it
you see the alpha gets the young hot beautiful woman, not the older woman with kids, thats beta and these are the guys that settle.. betas. in reality they still wnat young hot woman but generally cant get them
while the alpha or badass gets the young hotties
anyways here is a recent article on the cougar myth
Glad to see at least someone gets how all this works.
And for naysayers, just keep this in mind:
"Every time you date someone with an issue that you have to work to ignore, you're settling."
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