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'He's gay or you're ugly'... what stupid, unhelpful nonsense.
Ignore such stuff, sailor moon, and read this old thread: sexless marriage
Sailor moon, the reality is that there are likely serious problems in your relationship and the lack of sex is both symptomatic of the problems and part of the problem itself.
You need relationship counseling to talk through what's going on.
Relationship counseling only works if both parties "want" to go to it. If he does not (and only agrees to to make her happy), there's a better chance that relationship counseling will only make the problem worse on his end.
OK PEOPLE this is a serious situation that is plaguing this young woman's life and it should be treated as so. In addition I myself am going through a similar situation @ sailor. I'm a very attractive 24 year old woman who is married to a 36 year old man who goes weeks without touching me intimately, he isn't even romantic anymore we dont do the love letter thing, bubble baths and it feels as if he is always in a rush to get sex over with. It really does hit your self esteem hard, but remember the SEX can let you know alot of things pertaining to your relationship and as far as men go a general rule of thumb is if the casba isn't getting rocked there are underlying problems. We have only been married for 2 years and I have watched the sex go from 2 times a day to once every two weeks to down to once a month and I'm considering leaving him. He wont seek counseling and I have tried to compromise, but the truth of the matter is that YOU DESERVE TO HAVE A GREAT SEX LIFE. let me say it again YOU DESERVE TO HAVE A GREAT SEX LIFE and i'm sure your a beautiful woman inside and out and if any man refuses to make love to you then guess what thats his loss. I realize that my husband has alot of baggage from prior relationships, but I can't change that and I cant change him, all I know is I deserve to be happy, with whoever. You can love that man till your blue in the face, but honey just be sure you love yourself first and definately more.
Sorry Sweet.
I hope you get some boom boom soon.
Oh. Just some advice...Don't lay on your back and expect some sex.
Sometimes women lack the skills of seduction after they marry. So if you are still doing these things then it should carry on.
I know in my marriage she will come in and lay in bed. I lay there beside her watching t.v. She will lay in bed with a sweatshirt and sweatpants on and have the covers up to her neck. She lays there for...oh about 10 minutes. Then she sighs really loud and rolls over and goes to sleep. Later the next day I find she wanted to have sex. Last time I checked she was on her period cause there were wrappers in the waste basket.
Don't play the mind games. We don't know if you are on your period or have a headache or have to work early and need sleep. I mean come on. Stay naked and jump on top of your man for crying out loud!!! Men are turned on by visual!!! Remember that.
Beard, a woman or man a gay person is with to appear straight to their family or employer. Or themselves if they are in deep denial.
Sucker, someone who carries the load and reaps no reward. I betcha she pays the rent and other bills and this guy is enjoying his free ride.
Undress slowly in front of him.
If you want some music will be fun too, though not necessary. Try Kanye West "Say You Will"
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Last time I checked she was on her period cause there were wrappers in the waste basket. 
