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Old 05-23-2009, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR.
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Yeah, I see your point. By the same token, I might add that men also appreciate when a women steps out of her comfort zone and goes straight for the horizontal tango. We see this as a sign of someone who doesn't take herself too seriously and likes to have fun -- not that the ones who don't do it aren't also fun. Cheers!
Well that's the root of the problem right there...practically everybody takes themselves and everything else waaay too goddamn seriously, as if them and their business is of cosmic importance or some crap like that. Pathetically common in American culture, and a lot of these broads and douche-bags like to hang out at the clubs on the weekend so they can strut and preen and generally be impossible. Trying to associate with these morons while they're busy trying desperately to be the coolest person in room is a recipe for "WTF?" as our hero the OP quickly realized.
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Old 05-24-2009, 01:11 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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They are probably guarded because of douche bag guys coming on to them.

Not rocket science really.
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Old 05-24-2009, 01:16 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Seriously, you can only brush off so much slime before you start to preemptively back away from the potential oooze. If it's a concern, talk to the d-bags and convince them not to ruin it for everybody else.
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Old 07-20-2009, 08:29 AM
 
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Default Hey, Cyanosphere...

...you mentioned women have always thrown themselves at you, so I think you have a inflated sense of your value to women. you basically need to cut yourself down to size with a few rejections to even things out. If you survive you'll start to see women as less intimidating and more accessible. Good luck.
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Old 07-20-2009, 08:39 AM
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Location: MA/NH
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...you mentioned women have always thrown themselves at you, so I think you have a inflated sense of your value to women. you basically need to cut yourself down to size with a few rejections to even things out. If you survive you'll start to see women as less intimidating and more accessible. Good luck.
I *think* that they only "threw" themselves at him when he had a job at a trendy womens clothing store at a mall. So I'd question whether or not they were actually interested in dating him, or just wanting him to give them his employee discount.
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Old 07-20-2009, 10:24 AM
 
Location: down south
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Let's me give you some honest comments.

You're not good-looking enough. Or at least you're not good-looking enough in their eyes. Physical appearance is super important in the venues you went to. More important than all the honest, personality crap often spewed out by shallow women to make themselves look less shallow. Heck, it's even more important than money. Remember, it's a meat market, in meat market, only meat counts.
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Old 07-20-2009, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Reno
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2 reasons:
1. they might just be there to have fun with friends. a lot of young women try to look really good even in front of females.
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2. they might have wised up realizing the kind of guy they would meet at a bar usually isnt the kind of guy you end up dating these days. i am friendly and will talk to a guy who is talking to me, but i know realisically even if he gets my number, he wont call.
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