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Old 05-15-2009, 11:43 PM
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Seems it hard for a woman to accept a man that into trampling or having any other fetish. I just wish some women here in Philly would be more openminded and not be so quick to labe something as WEIRD

 
Old 05-16-2009, 12:46 AM
 
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Curious about this one too. I've known some women who wouldn't even give oral sex or even receive oral sex! Seemed a little strange to me.

I am curious as well as to what women on this forum think of:

anal
dressing up
spanking
bondage

I am sure there are many other bizarre fetishes but those seem to be the most common ones.
 
Old 05-16-2009, 06:17 AM
 
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I'm not sure if this is just trolling or not but I'll respond from my point of view.
Its not that fetish's are weird. They are more serious.
A fetish can be or very akin to an obsession. Obsessions take over lives.
If its not your own personal obsession you are not going to want to be with someone
who is obsessed. No way. At best they quickly become irritating or boring to have to deal with.
 
Old 05-16-2009, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Whoville....
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Seems it hard for a woman to accept a man that into trampling or having any other fetish. I just wish some women here in Philly would be more openminded and not be so quick to labe something as WEIRD
I'm afraid to ask, but what is "trampling"?

As to fetishes, it depends on what they are. Some are harmless and some intended to inflict pain (like sadism). Some are creepy like wanting her clean shaven and dressed in pink like she's a little girl. Each fetish has to be evaluated individually to decide if it's weird and the definition of weird is in the eye of the beholder.
 
Old 05-16-2009, 10:58 AM
 
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Depends on the fetish.
 
Old 05-16-2009, 11:00 AM
 
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As long as his fetish is spending insane amounts of money on me, taking me shopping for anything I want, buying me a boatload of couture ballgowns and latin costumes, and just in general, worshipping me and lavishing me with everything luxurious - all without a single whimper .... then yes, I am into guys with fetishes!
 
Old 05-16-2009, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Seems it hard for a woman to accept a man that into trampling or having any other fetish. I just wish some women here in Philly would be more openminded and not be so quick to labe something as WEIRD
No, I could not and would not.

Frankly I think you should have a read over what the psychological community says about fetishes, they are not what is considered normal but more of a fixation born of abnormal thought process and sometimes even abuse.

Sexual Dysfunction's, Paraphilias and Gender Identity Disorders
 
Old 05-16-2009, 11:03 AM
 
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If you are into trampling, there are sites you can go to to find this and many other fetishes; it is not going to be practiced out in the open.
 
Old 05-16-2009, 11:05 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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As long as his fetish is spending insane amounts of money on me, taking me shopping for anything I want, buying me a boatload of couture ballgowns and latin costumes, and just in general, worshipping me and lavishing me with everything luxurious - all without a single whimper .... then yes, I am into guys with fetishes!
LMAO - there is such a thing as financial slavery (money slaves).
 
Old 05-16-2009, 11:05 AM
 
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No, I could not and would not.

Frankly I think you should have a read over what the psychological community says about fetishes, they are not what is considered normal but more of a fixation born of abnormal thought process and sometimes even abuse.

Sexual Dysfunction's, Paraphilias and Gender Identity Disorders
Wow. I take back my post. I've always thought of fetishes as just things people like. I didn't realize it was fixation to the exclusion of the person. I was thinking more enhancement if both were in agreement.

I'll pass.
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