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Old 08-06-2009, 12:46 PM
 
Location: lala land
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What a loser . I would probably call someone that knew him and tell them what he was doing. Hopefully the shame would be enough to discourage him from doing it again.
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Old 08-06-2009, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Moose Jaw, in between the Moose's butt and nose.
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I don't know if she can sue or not. It's getting rediculous though. They broke up well over a year ago and he's now engaged to someone else.

Theirs was a weird relationship. He'd string her along then dump her, come back and dump her again. She, finally, stopped taking him back. Now he won't go away.

This guy is strange. They were both married when they started seeing each other. Both of them left their spouses for each other (supposedly for each other anyway). Then he started making excuses why they couldn't be together and doing the yo-yo thing. Now he's into harrassment because she's not having anything to do with him.
If they were both married when they started seeing each other, well, serves her right and shows character issues on both parties.
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Old 08-06-2009, 02:33 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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I have a friend who can't seem to rid herself of an ex. He broke up with her but he takes great joy in calling her up and leaving messages about what a loser she is and how she'll never get a man. Recently, he sent her pictures of his new girlfriend wearing a necklace he bought her for Christamas when they were together that he took back and the engagement ring he bought for her.

What is with this kind of behavior? If he's moved on, why is he bugging her? And how does she get rid of him? I keep telling her to ignore him but he just keeps doing things like this. She changed her phone number but he figures out the new one. She's moved to another state and he still found her address and sends letters and pictures to her.

What do you do to make someone like this go away? Can she do anything legally? A PPO won't do any good since they live a few hundred miles away from each other.

How would you handle this?
He is a stalker and if it were me, I would not hesitate to slap a restraining order on his ass. I don't play with people like that.
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Old 08-06-2009, 06:48 PM
 
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