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No one has to put up with anything negative that their partner does; even if it's only negative from THEIR perspective.
WHAT??? Excuse me, but I've got news for you. Even the people we love the most are going to anger, frustrate and disappoint us sometimes. YOU ARE NOT THE CENTER OF THE UNIVERSE. Grow UP!
Then you want to become a lesbian, because ALL MEN LOOK AT PORN. And you know what? Those men who you are thinking of right now now, those men you know personally and know, for a FACT, don't look at porn? THEY LOOK AT PORN, TOO!
YES, I am confident. My man does not look at porn. He does not need to. He thinks losers look at porn, he has a better value for his time. This is a rare case, TRUST me. I know. I divorced two a**holes who looked at porn, mainly because of that. No hesitation. DONE! Something is wrong with a relationship if one of the parties is looking at porn.
And you do not tell me who I need to become, simply because you have no idea what a true devotion is. Real life and is not on a computer screen, so good luck to ya! Happy jacking!
People saying that the man should respect his woman's wishes to not watch porn should realize it's a two way street. She should respect his wishes to watch porn. She doesn't have to watch it, but let him do so if he wants.
In the end, if it seems that in a relationship where one likes porn and the other doesn't, someone will be disrepsected. He, if he gives up porn, her if he doesn't. However, even if he says he gave up porn, he's likely lying anyway. He should just leave, as she likely won't accept him for who he is. And she can sit alone the rest of her life waiting for this mythical bible-thumper type who never watches porn (ie he lies), while he meets a normal woman who is well adjusted, sees no threat from porn, and they get on with life together.
I disagree. Thing is, my man chooses not to watch porn. Nothing is forced here. Nobody is insecure or threatened by anyone's fat ass in a magazine. Nobody gave up anything. Why does a woman have to be a submissive one all the time? Both partners can enjoy just each other. Both people can love each other equally and no other body or fantasy is needed. Why is it so hard to understand? We do not want to imagine ourselves with anyone, but the two of us only...What is so strange about that?
If she "should" respect his porn, then she shouldn't be in the relationship with such a guy. I would literally castrate...Sorry, it is just ridiculous for a woman to take sh** like that from a dude. I would not give a guy like that a time of my day. This is just how much i love and respect ME first!
I disagree. Thing is, my man chooses not to watch porn. Nothing is forced here. Nobody is insecure or threatened by anyone's fat ass in a magazine. Nobody gave up anything. Why does a woman have to be a submissive one all the time? Both partners can enjoy just each other. Both people can love each other equally and no other body or fantasy is needed. Why is it so hard to understand? We do not want to imagine ourselves with anyone, but the two of us only...What is so strange about that?
If she "should" respect his porn, then she shouldn't be in the relationship with such a guy. I would literally castrate...Sorry, it is just ridiculous for a woman to take sh** like that from a dude. I would not give a guy like that a time of my day. This is just how much i love and respect ME first!
Every man fantasizes. Including your husband...
You see. It's called BIOLOGY.
So what you are saying is that the WOMAN should control the man then.
You mean like on the living room flat-screen at 2:00 PM in the afternoon?
With his pants down to his ankles... HOTTT, that sounds like a real winner here... lol ( well, he thinks so, because looking at porn is such an awesome thing to do, wow!)
So what you are saying is that the WOMAN should control the man then.
Got ya...
That is a thing, I DO NOT control anyone. I am his fantasy. You can ask him yourself. Biology there is. Agreed. His fantasy came true. I can't help it.
YES, I am confident. My man does not look at porn. He does not need to. He thinks losers look at porn, he has a better value for his time. This is a rare case, TRUST me. I know. I divorced two a**holes who looked at porn, mainly because of that. No hesitation. DONE! Something is wrong with a relationship if one of the parties is looking at porn.
Right.
Well, hopefully he will cover his tracks well and you'll never have to accidentally uncover evidence of his porn viewing and divorce him, too.
I am just STUNNED that there are still grown women in this world who are this naive...
That is a thing, I DO NOT control anyone. I am his fantasy. You can ask him yourself. Biology there is. Agreed. His fantasy came true. I can't help it.
Lol..
No offense to women but some times you women believe the stupidest things.
You are his fantasy? What an 18 year old thing to say.
I bet he tells you he never looks at either women and that you DON'T look fat in these pants.
maybe he wouldn't look at porn so much if you actually gave him any....
This relationship is ruined because of porn. Why would she want to give him anything now? It is a major turn off. If some scum bag took something from you and cr**ed all over you and your feelings, do you want to give them bonus on the top of that? Are you even thinking??
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