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Old 08-24-2009, 02:12 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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Originally Posted by ilovebdj View Post
I don't know if one would call this "friends with benefits" but what is the deal with some men out there? I've been trying for over a year to find a gentleman type to just have fun with. I've been open and honest about what I want. I don't care for the whole sleeping around bit, but I don't want to be in a relationship. Ideally I'd like someone to have just one on one sex.

I'm sure a lot of men out there will say it can be done, but my guy friends laugh at me when I end up with these sensitive, tender types. What is the deal? Besides being totally honest about my situation up front, (and besides going the married route) how does one acquire a man to just have sex with without hurting his feelings?

And before any crazies tell me how much of a hussy I am, pause for a moment. I'm trying to save money, finish school, and do a million other things for myself that a relationship would otherwise take away from. So....can it be done? Can guys just have sex?
You should probably date a married man. The sex is outstanding (much has been written on this) and you don't have to worry about them getting to serious or controlling. Also, you don't have to worry about catching anything because you know who they are sleeping with.

W.

 
Old 08-24-2009, 02:12 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Sorry for my ignorance - what does FWB mean?
i had to look it up too, its friends with benefits. the gay community has an expression for it but its not nice.
 
Old 08-24-2009, 02:43 PM
 
Location: southern california
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You should probably date a married man. The sex is outstanding (much has been written on this) and you don't have to worry about them getting to serious or controlling. Also, you don't have to worry about catching anything because you know who they are sleeping with.

W.
yep--AIDS- the last words of suzy homewrecker-. i know who he has been sleeping with. he lied & cheated with her but with me ---no way.
 
Old 08-24-2009, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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yep--AIDS- the last words of suzy homewrecker-. i know who he has been sleeping with. he lied & cheated with her but with me ---never never.
Then wear a condom. Whatever.
 
Old 08-24-2009, 02:50 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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You should probably date a married man. The sex is outstanding (much has been written on this) and you don't have to worry about them getting to serious or controlling. Also, you don't have to worry about catching anything because you know who they are sleeping with.

W.

I am no angel poster boy for morality but I don't agree with this at all.Marriage is a sacred commitment,and it is not good to seek out married people to lead them astray for your benefit.

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Old 08-24-2009, 02:51 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Then wear a condom. Whatever.
instance of cracks fissures in old condoms is high. how many guys rotate stock, i dont think so. and really how many actually use them huh?
 
Old 08-24-2009, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Coral Springs, Fl
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Try Adult Friend Finder - I happen to like the alternative dating scene. There is just something really spontanious and taboo about talking with someone a few times, meeting them and within 5 minutes your in bed with them.

I've used AFF in the past, and while my last experience wasn't that great becuase she lied about her weight and age, I've had plenty of good experiences as well.

I've also used Craigslist casual encounters, most women that contacted me on there were married. I met a couple of women on there, 1 was a bad experience the second was amazing.
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