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Old 05-24-2009, 04:00 PM
 
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That's fine if you are dating and the feeling is mutual.

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Aw come on Artsyguy, what's wrong with relieving stress?
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Old 05-24-2009, 05:47 PM
 
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You don't have sex with your wife?
Like... ever?
Nope.Hads problems because of Medication.Then she had problems.Now just not interesting.

hillman
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Old 05-26-2009, 03:14 PM
 
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Is there a connection between the way men act in bed and how they feel about you? Please give some examples.
I think people are consistent both in and out of bed. If they're very loving and affectionate out of bed, they'll be like that in bed. Likewise, if they're cold and selfish out of it, they'll be like that when you sleep with them.
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Old 05-28-2009, 02:37 PM
 
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That's fine if you are dating and the feeling is mutual.
Is there a connection between the way men act in bed and how they feel about you? Please give some examples

Okay Artsyguy, so if your partner, the one that you are in a relationship with, wanted a quickie from you, are you saying you wouldn't oblige, because, you felt like you were being taken advantage of, or, was being used, as a tool?
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Old 05-28-2009, 02:49 PM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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Is there a connection between the way men act in bed and how they feel about you? Please give some examples

Okay Artsyguy, so if your partner, the one that you are in a relationship with, wanted a quickie from you, are you saying you wouldn't oblige, because, you felt like you were being taken advantage of, or, was being used, as a tool?
I think people are seeing this yet again as far too black and white.

Yes, men by nature are more detached when it comes to viewing sex and feelings towards the partner.

But I have never, ever, in the under two handfuls of women I've been with not shown physical affection towards them when in bed. Now once it's "on", that might be a bit different. But yes, I can see if you don't get so much as a hug before or after an oral 'favor', that's a pretty good indicator he doesn't regard you as much of anything further than a sex toy.

Not a total one, but it should be a GIANT red flag if that's the norm.

And ya, sorry, if your in an actual relationship that's functional with decent drives, your going to expect favors and give them on occasion as well. It's still a necessary bonding for both sexes in a relationship, if the needs aren't being taken care of, you or the partner are going to wander at some stage.
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Old 05-28-2009, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Florida
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I think people are consistent both in and out of bed. If they're very loving and affectionate out of bed, they'll be like that in bed. Likewise, if they're cold and selfish out of it, they'll be like that when you sleep with them.
Right on!
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Old 05-28-2009, 03:32 PM
 
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Default Need an Answer!

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do they scratch their balls, fart and roll over and snore?
Do married guys nearly all have distended guts from holding it in til morning or is it the home cooking?
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Old 05-28-2009, 03:34 PM
 
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This is what One Night stands are for.Had sex with a woman one time,Great sex but I could not Love her.

Don't have sex with my wife but Love her very much.

hillman


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This post says it all, and describes what is wrong with people.

You want your cake and eat it too.

But I am not too sure of why you stay with your wife, if you have to lie to her.
So naturally its all HIS fault?
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Old 05-28-2009, 04:13 PM
 
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ha ha that sounds like the typical male right there.

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if they are stiff and distant do they scratch their balls, fart and roll over and snore
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Old 05-28-2009, 04:17 PM
 
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what i was told still holds true:

if a man wants to have sex with you, it doesn't mean he loves you, it doesn't mean he thinks you are a wonderful person, it doesn't mean he wants to marry you, it doesn't mean he wants to live together, it doesn't mean he cares for you, it doesn't mean he wants to see you again, it doesn't mean he wants to have kids with you, it doesn't mean he even knows your last name. If a man wants to have sex with you, all it means is that he wants to have sex with you.
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