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Is there a connection between the way men act in bed and how they feel about you? Please give some examples.
I think people are consistent both in and out of bed. If they're very loving and affectionate out of bed, they'll be like that in bed. Likewise, if they're cold and selfish out of it, they'll be like that when you sleep with them.
That's fine if you are dating and the feeling is mutual.
Is there a connection between the way men act in bed and how they feel about you? Please give some examples
Okay Artsyguy, so if your partner, the one that you are in a relationship with, wanted a quickie from you, are you saying you wouldn't oblige, because, you felt like you were being taken advantage of, or, was being used, as a tool?
Is there a connection between the way men act in bed and how they feel about you? Please give some examples
Okay Artsyguy, so if your partner, the one that you are in a relationship with, wanted a quickie from you, are you saying you wouldn't oblige, because, you felt like you were being taken advantage of, or, was being used, as a tool?
I think people are seeing this yet again as far too black and white.
Yes, men by nature are more detached when it comes to viewing sex and feelings towards the partner.
But I have never, ever, in the under two handfuls of women I've been with not shown physical affection towards them when in bed. Now once it's "on", that might be a bit different. But yes, I can see if you don't get so much as a hug before or after an oral 'favor', that's a pretty good indicator he doesn't regard you as much of anything further than a sex toy.
Not a total one, but it should be a GIANT red flag if that's the norm.
And ya, sorry, if your in an actual relationship that's functional with decent drives, your going to expect favors and give them on occasion as well. It's still a necessary bonding for both sexes in a relationship, if the needs aren't being taken care of, you or the partner are going to wander at some stage.
I think people are consistent both in and out of bed. If they're very loving and affectionate out of bed, they'll be like that in bed. Likewise, if they're cold and selfish out of it, they'll be like that when you sleep with them.
if a man wants to have sex with you, it doesn't mean he loves you, it doesn't mean he thinks you are a wonderful person, it doesn't mean he wants to marry you, it doesn't mean he wants to live together, it doesn't mean he cares for you, it doesn't mean he wants to see you again, it doesn't mean he wants to have kids with you, it doesn't mean he even knows your last name. If a man wants to have sex with you, all it means is that he wants to have sex with you.
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