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05-25-2009, 05:02 PM
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Location: Portland, OR.
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Originally Posted by yoyogirl
Maybe I'm grasping at straws, but when I saw him on Monday he was acting like he really likes me. Hugging and kissing and stuff and then invited himself over this weekend, wanted me to text him when I got home, etc.. Not acting like a guy who was about to move on and diss me. So you see why I think it's strange he would suddenly blow me off like that?
Monday was also the day I told him I just want to have sex with him and that's it. I also let it drop that I'm dating other guys.
Is there a chance that maybe he does like me and figured out he is not okay with the only sex thing, especially since he knows I date other guys too? Maybe he felt used?
Maybe I'm grasping at straws but I'm just trying to figure this out. It just doesn't make sense to me so far.
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Originally Posted by yoyogirl
I tried to call. He didn't answer. I even left a voicemail saying I'm just confused about why he made plans with me then ignored me without even cancelling the plans. Haven't heard back from him.
It's obvious he didn't forget our plans, he is just ignoring and avoiding me.
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Yeah, definitely sounds like you should have kept your mouth shut. You blew it...know better next time.
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05-25-2009, 05:04 PM
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Originally Posted by ExPit
WOOOO!!! Just read this. Apologies for not doing so before. Yoyo Girl? Are you serious with this question? You told the guy you wanted to basically use him as a living d*ldo and now you can't understand why he's turned off? You better have a good explanation for this or I'm done.
Look ... there is nothing wrong with you only wanting a sexual relationship with someone. But you really are surprised that that would offend him? If so, sounds like you blew it with a genuine guy. You hurt him, you wanted to use him and now you're shocked, hurt, befuddled??? The guy probably did like you, did want a real relationship with you. But now, I wouldn't buy a turn about, would you?
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That is exactly what I said earlier. You can't have it both ways. How can anyone expect someone to behave any differently after they TOLD them they ONLY want sex, and oh, by the way, I'm seeing other people too.
A complete "dis". Helloooo? |
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05-26-2009, 09:24 PM
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An update in case anyone is interested. He did get in contact with me and apologized and said his phone was broken.
Not sure I totally believe him but I'll roll with it.  |
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05-26-2009, 09:32 PM
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1st Amendment, RIP!
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Tucson
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Originally Posted by yoyogirl
An update in case anyone is interested. He did get in contact with me and apologized and said his phone was broken.
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Ha-ha, and so was his friend's, neighbor's, and all the remaining pay phones in the city!   |
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05-26-2009, 09:44 PM
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lol. Ya I know. I know this guy is bad for me but I can't stay away. I think I like it!
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Originally Posted by sierraAZ
Ha-ha, and so was his friend's, neighbor's, and all the remaining pay phones in the city! |
Last edited by yoyogirl; 05-26-2009 at 10:14 PM..
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05-26-2009, 09:54 PM
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1st Amendment, RIP!
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Location: Tucson
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Originally Posted by yoyogirl
lol. Ya I know. I know this guy is bad for me but I can't stay away. I think I like it!
He puts me through crazy emotional turmoil like noone else does. It's like my r/ships with everyone else is vanilla and with him it's like extra extra extra spicy curry beef. And each time he puts me through something like this and we "make up" it's like I feel even closer and more bonded to him than before. I used to be able to walk away pretty easily. I did once and then he brought me back in a few months later. Now I'm at a point where I don't think I can. I think for it to end he will have to simply just start avoiding me completely, delete his myspace, change his number, and move. Lol. Not that I'd stalk him in a dangerous way, but I think we'll keep this up as long as both of us let ourselves. Maybe he is getting something out of it too or he probably would have completely written me off a long time ago. Drama. |
Oh, well... I certainly can't be one to throw stones at you as I'm susceptible to crazy-making myself. 
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05-27-2009, 08:08 AM
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Location: New Milford, NJ
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Originally Posted by yoyogirl
lol. Ya I know. I know this guy is bad for me but I can't stay away. I think I like it! |
Oh boy...yoyogirl, I know that feeling... |
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05-27-2009, 08:17 AM
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Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Originally Posted by yoyogirl
lol. Ya I know. I know this guy is bad for me but I can't stay away. I think I like it! |
Of course you like it, as you like all the responses to this and to your other posts on almost exactly the same subject. It's the whole drama which excites you... |
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05-31-2009, 11:51 PM
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he's blowing u off and you sound desperate, which might be why
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