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Old 05-23-2009, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Valkenvania
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I've been seeing a guy and on Monday he said he was going to come over to my house this weekend either Friday or Saturday. I hadn't anything from him since then and today is Saturday after 6:00 pm. I texted him twice today to see if he's coming and I haven't heard from him.

What should I do? I can understand maybe something came up he wants to do more, but he can at least text me with an excuse like that he's sick? How rude is it to leave me hanging without a word?

He's the one who made the plans in the first place too. Should I be mad or am I overreacting? Could there be a good reason?
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Old 05-23-2009, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Be mad and go on with your weekend. NEXT!
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Old 05-23-2009, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Philippines
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I don't know that he is blowing you of, per se, as it is not like you had specific plans (or at least it does not sound like it from what you posted here). It sounds like things were left up in the air, and he probable found something else to do since you two did not talk during the week to set up a specific plan of action.

If it were me, I would let it drop, and next time it happens that you text him (why you did not just phone him is beyond me), and you do not get a response in about 30 min - I would make plans to have a girls night out.
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Old 05-23-2009, 08:11 PM
 
Location: Beautiful New England
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What should I do?
Here's a radical thought: pick up the phone, give him a call, ask him what's going on.
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Old 05-23-2009, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR.
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Not that into you.
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Old 05-23-2009, 08:29 PM
 
Location: Nova Scotia
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Whether or not he is in to her he needs to stop being a a coward and let her know. If I were you I would not message again, you sent two, that is more than enough. If he likes you he will be in touch if not he won't and you can move on.
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Old 05-23-2009, 08:38 PM
 
Location: New Milford, NJ
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Not that into you.
I second that. Just happened to me. Needless to say, he's done. Next. Same thing you described.
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Old 05-23-2009, 09:43 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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Are these troll posts or for real?

The O.P. started this almost exact same thread a week ago:
He cancelled our plans...Should I be mad?
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Old 05-23-2009, 09:50 PM
 
Location: Nova Scotia
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Either that or the OP is having a hard time understanding why he does not want to be with her?
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Old 05-23-2009, 10:26 PM
 
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Are these troll posts or for real?

The O.P. started this almost exact same thread a week ago:
He cancelled our plans...Should I be mad?
She has started several on the same topics. Maybe she she has memory issues.
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