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Old 05-29-2009, 06:50 AM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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I have decided to cut off my wife completely. Meaning: talks, favores, chores, etc..... I think aleast this will get her attention.

What do you think?
I don't think it's a way to solve anything, but if you think that's the only way to get her attention, more power to ya. I think you're playing games, kinda like she is. If you wanted a real answer to your problems, you'd insist on counseling or losing you. One or the other, or she comes clean now. Tell her you know about the porn etc, and let her know your thoughts on the subject. A lot of the time, your answer is right in front of your face, men just like to pretend it isn't there.
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Old 05-29-2009, 10:07 AM
 
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The majority of your posts have related to the problems you have with your wife where your sexual relationship is concerned and it appears from them that the warning signs were there even before you were married. I can't imagine why you would continue on without getting some counseling. Posting on a forum obviously isn't helping the situation and isn't going to result in some big miracle. Good luck and I hope you do something constructive soon so the rest of your life isn't a loveless frustration. Cheers!
I totally agree. There are two different threads going on right now regarding this matter. The OP also stated in the other thread that his wife may have a low sex drive due to a chemical imbalance or something that scarred her in the past. Perhaps there is something in her past that needs to be addressed. It's seems very possibly that both are depressed and need some therapy if they are thinking of continuing this relationship.
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Old 05-29-2009, 10:09 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Wouldn't it be more productive just to confront the issue head-on? Unless you DON'T really wanna know...
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Old 05-29-2009, 10:28 AM
 
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Any chance she's a lesbian?
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Old 05-29-2009, 11:35 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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I have decided to cut off my wife completely. Meaning: talks, favores, chores, etc..... I think aleast this will get her attention.

What do you think?
I think you're a total idiot!
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Old 05-29-2009, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Any chance she's a lesbian?
Now that I think about it--the OP has been asked this a few times but doesnt seem to want to answer. Wonder what that means?
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Old 05-30-2009, 12:34 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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LOL.... I`ll tell you, like I would tell a male watching porn.
Cut her off! By crappy.....if she wants to masterbate to porn while your away, then she don`t get the real thing.
She`s obviously not turned on by your presence, and is not interested in you. Hmmm.....Turn on the page on her.
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Old 01-01-2010, 08:04 PM
 
Location: OCEAN BREEZES AND VIEWS SAN CLEMENTE
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Wow you got problems. I would say you have a problem with your wife. Sure she is not doing more then just watching the PORN. She is obvious not into you, but why! Maybe the porn is making her more sexually astute, is she wondering what it is like to be with a WOMEN. Why not just ask your wife, if she refuses to tell you, she is a *****. The fact is that she is not wanting the sex with you, wants it over as fast as it began. What are the communication skills like in your marriage, do you talk about these issues. If not, now is the time.
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Old 01-02-2010, 01:44 AM
 
Location: down the shore
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For the last two years of a five year marriage my wife has refused to have sex any more than once a month or less. When we do have sex she just lays there and says hurry-up, get it over with. Now I have notice that she is looking at porn while I am at work. I am very frustrated.

Is there anything I can do?

Has anyone been in this position before?


Any advice would help.

Please help!

WHICH POSITION???

I CAN'T THE PICTURE!!!
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Old 01-02-2010, 04:43 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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Extenze?????
Or do a 96. We used to call it 69 but the price of eating out went up.
And don't do fast food. Have a nice long dinner.
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