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Old 05-28-2009, 09:36 PM
 
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I'm quite sure that whatever I want is completely different to what other women want. Might be worth spending your time working out the wants and needs of the particular woman you're dealing with and not worrying so much about the rest of us.
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Old 05-28-2009, 09:40 PM
 
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Women want 4 types of guys:

1. The old rich guy : spends money on her and doesn't expect sex.
2. The nice guy: Eventually going to marry her and take care of her kids. This guys has to, "prove" she is worth something to her.
3. The player: The guy who is great in the bed. This guy gets a front of the line pass to her bed. NSA.
4. The gay friend: Listens to her non-sense and what she did with the player and what the old guy bought for her. As well as the nice dinner the nice guy paid for her.

That is how it goes buddy. What category do you want to be in?

Remember though, in the dating world you are the real prize in the game. Without any men women wouldn't be able to sell their beauty to the highest bidder nor would they be able to have children. Unfortunately, many men don't realize this and give it up very easy. If you get a vasectomy and refuse to get married this is like kryptonite against being exploited by women. Mainly because 1) you'll be single, and hence available to be married. 2) You won't have kids, and hence won't already be plundered by another female. 3) You should have your financial condition to be above average since you don't have to buy a big house (for the family) or support kids. That means you'll have the three things that every woman wants: Money, marriage and kids. That'll be your bait, use it wisely and make sure to flaunt it to the right females of your choice.

Oh yea and if you want a serious relationship (marriage) and you want to have kids. All I can say is - good luck!

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Guys want sex & food. Alot of the things guy think they want (status, fine clothes & car) they want simply so they can get a woman for the sex & food when you get down to it. As a matter of fact, a man can get their own food. They just want the sex.
Very true! Either they want sex with many hot women or they want sex consistently with one female that they find attractive.

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Old 05-28-2009, 09:40 PM
 
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I'm quite sure that whatever I want is completely different to what other women want. Might be worth spending your time working out the wants and needs of the particular woman you're dealing with and not worrying so much about the rest of us.
Interesting insight considering this is a forum entitled "Relationships."
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Old 05-28-2009, 09:49 PM
 
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Interesting insight considering this is a forum entitled "Relationships."
**shrug** Take it or leave it! OR you could go with killer!

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Old 05-28-2009, 09:56 PM
 
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What women want isn't hard to figure out at all. The main two things they want from a man are confidence and the ability to solve problems.
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Old 05-28-2009, 10:20 PM
 
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What women want isn't hard to figure out at all. The main two things they want from a man are confidence and the ability to solve problems.
Ba bom! Nope!

Can't say confidence is one of two main things I'd be thinking of, I'd rate kindness much higher and I'd prefer an ability to listen and resolve problems together over deferring all problem solving to him.
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Old 05-28-2009, 10:42 PM
 
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That is how it goes buddy. What category do you want to be in?
ROFL!

Pretty much that is the way it is.

Years ago I used to invest all this time in worrying about what women want. Total waste of time. They don't know what they want and if they do they change their mind anyways. Therefore don't bother.

I am what I am and I don't duck into the discussions anymore about what I can "provide" them. I wont be fulfilling their champagne wishes and caviar dreams.
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Old 05-28-2009, 10:45 PM
 
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women want to be yelled out and put in their place
Watch out, buddy!
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Old 05-28-2009, 10:54 PM
 
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Watch out, buddy!
quite women and go cook me my damn dinner!
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Old 05-28-2009, 10:57 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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quite women and go cook me my damn dinner!
You're lucky I'm not in a feisty mood and winding down already!
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