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Old 05-30-2009, 09:10 AM
 
Location: Valkenvania
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over other girls that show him attention and flirt with him and stuff, does that mean he likes her?

Last night this guy found out I get jealous of other girls (flirting with him etc.) and he got all happy and excited and was surprised and started hugging me and stuff. Then he started telling me don't worry I'm the only girl.

I thought he would be kind of annoyed to find out I get jealous.

Does this mean he likes me?

We've been sleeping together but I'm not sure there are "romantic feelings." Thanks!
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Old 05-30-2009, 09:15 AM
 
Location: I never said I was perfect so no refunds here sorry!
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You have been sleeping together and not sure if there is romantic feelings?

If that's the case nothing else really matters
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Old 05-30-2009, 09:17 AM
 
Location: Valkenvania
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Lol. I mean I have those feelings for him, but not sure he has them for me. But I want him to.

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You have been sleeping together and not sure if there is romantic feelings?

If that's the case nothing else really matters
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Old 05-30-2009, 09:17 AM
 
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Please don't sleep with a guy if there are no romantic feelings or long-term commitment. Don't be anyone's free sex toy.That always leads to problems and broken hearts down the road.
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Old 05-30-2009, 09:20 AM
 
Location: Valkenvania
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Well my reasons are complex but they are good reasons. Like I'm planning on moving out of the country soon. And I had a bad abusive 5 year abusive r/ship I got out of recently and needed some space to myself (but not ALL alone). But I accidentally fell in love with this guy and thinks he could be feeling the same, but not 100% sure.

And I don't consider myself a free sex toy if I'm enjoying the sex too.

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Please don't sleep with a guy if there are no romantic feelings or long-term commitment. Don't be anyone's free sex toy.That always leads to problems and broken hearts down the road.
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Old 05-30-2009, 09:23 AM
 
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Well my reasons are complex but they are good reasons. Like I'm planning on moving out of the country soon. And I had a bad abusive 5 year abusive r/ship I got out of recently and needed some space to myself (but not ALL alone). But I accidentally fell in love with this guy and thinks he could be feeling the same, but not 100% sure.

And I don't consider myself a free sex toy if I'm enjoying the sex too.
Ok, I was just saying. I know other women who did the same and came to me crying for help. I just wanted to help another woman not to get into the same problem.

But, if it is what you want.
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Old 05-30-2009, 10:32 AM
 
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Default It Depends

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If a guy gets happy and excited when he finds out a girl gets jealous...

Does this mean he likes me?

We've been sleeping together but I'm not sure there are "romantic feelings." Thanks!
If he's running a string of 5 to 8 girlfriends, this is likely a complication he can do without.
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Old 05-30-2009, 10:52 AM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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Lol. I mean I have those feelings for him, but not sure he has them for me. But I want him to.
How many different men are you sleeping with?

Are you a woman-born-woman?
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Old 05-30-2009, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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over other girls that show him attention and flirt with him and stuff, does that mean he likes her?

Last night this guy found out I get jealous of other girls (flirting with him etc.) and he got all happy and excited and was surprised and started hugging me and stuff. Then he started telling me don't worry I'm the only girl.

I thought he would be kind of annoyed to find out I get jealous.

Does this mean he likes me?

We've been sleeping together but I'm not sure there are "romantic feelings." Thanks!
It's pretty immature. And I guarantee you, he may like it now but down the road, it will tear you apart. He'll end up resenting it. Right now, he may think he likes it b'c in his immaturity, he thinks that's how you show your interest. Jealousy is a destroyer of relationships, nothing more.
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Old 05-30-2009, 11:55 AM
 
Location: North America
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over other girls that show him attention and flirt with him and stuff, does that mean he likes her?

Last night this guy found out I get jealous of other girls (flirting with him etc.) and he got all happy and excited and was surprised and started hugging me and stuff. Then he started telling me don't worry I'm the only girl.

I thought he would be kind of annoyed to find out I get jealous.

Does this mean he likes me?

We've been sleeping together but I'm not sure there are "romantic feelings." Thanks!
Are you for real? You've posted how many threads now asking why you can't find a guy who just wants sex, and now that you have one, you're falling for him and wondering if he's falling for you?

Maybe you should think about NOT having sex for awhile until you get your head screwed on straight! Sorry to be harsh.
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