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Old 05-31-2009, 08:24 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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You know, I just noticed the title of the thread again - "should I be upset?" What does that even mean?! You're either upset or you're not. You don't wait for somebody to tell you whether to be upset or not!
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Old 05-31-2009, 08:25 PM
 
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After he realized how upset you were that he didn't get you one initially?



You must have told him you were expecting one and it upset you greatly that he didn't meet your expectations.



But he knew you were expecting something? Now, he is "guilted" into buying you something, anything to appease the "hurt".



No. I do have a suggestion; Give him some really good sex.
I swear that I didn't show any upset or disappointment...I was a bit disappointed in my heart but I know it is no big deal...

we haven't had sex yet as I told him that I am not ready
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Old 06-01-2009, 06:40 AM
 
Location: Philly
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You know, I just noticed the title of the thread again - "should I be upset?" What does that even mean?! You're either upset or you're not. You don't wait for somebody to tell you whether to be upset or not!
Ha- great observation!

I think some people rely too much on TV, movies, and MTV to dictate their feelings.
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Old 06-01-2009, 06:44 AM
 
Location: Texas
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I think she is asking if she has the right to be upset. Which is still an odd question with no real answer.

One month anniversary? Geezus, high maintenance much?
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Old 06-01-2009, 08:38 AM
 
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OH..i am 25...
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this is my first official boyfriend...before this I only dated some guys, but they were not my boyfriends...I dated a guy for 4 months..that was the longest time..




I'm 25 myself and it has been 2 MONTHS since I've met my first boyfriend. Did I get upset and asked a bunch of strangers "should I be upset" because he didn't give me any freakn' gifts to "celebrate" 30 DAYS of being together?

NO.

You should of been grateful that he took you out to eat insteadof crying that he forgot to commerorate your 30th day anniversary! Why an anniversary? YOU'RE NOT MARRIED TO HIM!

I'm beginning to wonder of the guy's maturity myself to hook up with a grown woman with a brain of a teenager!
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Old 06-01-2009, 08:44 AM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, NC
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we haven't had sex yet as I told him that I am not ready
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I don't really like cooking...
and you expect this guy to buy you gifts and celebrate every month? poor dude
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Old 06-01-2009, 09:43 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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and you expect this guy to buy you gifts and celebrate every month? poor dude
Makes me wonder who wears the PANTIES in this relationship!
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Old 06-01-2009, 10:20 AM
 
Location: Upstate NY
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Here I thought you meant a serious anniversary (like marriage), but the OP means a one month anniversary? Seriously? I think you're overreacting. He took you out to dinner, didn't he? Personally, I think it's sad that someone actually expects gifts, especially after a month!
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Old 06-01-2009, 12:23 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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You should of been grateful that he took you out to eat
He was probably "guilted" into doing it.

If not, then it must have been a coincidence, because we all know that most normal guys would not be thinking about celebrating a 1 month anniversary, especially with no sex coming his way.
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Old 06-02-2009, 08:10 AM
 
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this is my first official boyfriend...before this I only dated some guys, but they were not my boyfriends...I dated a guy for 4 months..that was the longest time..
That's probably pretty common and maybe why some people mark their relationships off in months instead of years.

I've never really heard of celebrating the anniversary of dating -- I thought it was more about marriage.
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