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05-31-2009, 10:40 AM
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Does trying the other sex make you a lesbian
Well, since the demise of my last relationship a couple of months ago, i have been wanting to do a lot of wild sexual things. I watch a lot of sexual graphic movies and want to experience having a threesome. I know i am not gay because i love men and am man crazy, i just am having a strong curiosity to try a woman. Does that make me a lesbian or is this normal? I've always been a goodie goodie, do the right thing girl. But now i'm just wanting so badly to take a walk on the wild side.
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05-31-2009, 10:44 AM
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Yes, get a butch hair-cut, and start wearing a wife-beater with jeans.  |
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05-31-2009, 10:46 AM
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No, in my experience alot of girls I know have experimented. By the nature of your post I would say you are not a lesbian. You have to be very careful with threesomes its easy for someone to get hurt, often they end in tears.
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05-31-2009, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted by sincere1782
Well, since the demise of my last relationship a couple of months ago, i have been wanting to do a lot of wild sexual things. I watch a lot of sexual graphic movies and want to experience having a threesome. I know i am not gay because i love men and am man crazy, i just am having a strong curiosity to try a woman. Does that make me a lesbian or is this normal? I've always been a goodie goodie, do the right thing girl. But now i'm just wanting so badly to take a walk on the wild side.
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Nope. It will be just one more experience. Having a heterosexual night will not make a gay straight either. |
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05-31-2009, 10:46 AM
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Try a shemale or ladyboy?
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05-31-2009, 10:49 AM
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What defines your sexuality is your attraction to this or that sex (or both). Wanting to try something doesn't necessarily place you into one category or another. By the way, Alfred Kinsey -- certain aspects of whose research are under debate, okay, so put down your keyboards -- made an interesting observation from questioning thousands of men and women about their sexual proclivities: he believed that very few people are 100% heterosexual, 100% homosexual, or 100% bisexual with equal attraction to both sexes. Rather, he described sexuality as a scale, with most people being somewhere between the two extremes. And thus, a person who is generally heterosexual may nevertheless find certain aspects of the same sex arousing, and the reverse is true for most people who are generally gay. (I suppose that's why so many "heterosexual" people try threesomes.) It's even possible to change one's place on the scale, albeit only a little bit, over the course of one's lifetime.
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05-31-2009, 10:54 AM
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Why in god's name would anyone take this at face value...
I just wanna know, is it wrong of me to wish to be the salami in the middle of this girl sandwich? Does that make me a polygamist?  |
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05-31-2009, 11:01 AM
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Why in god's name would anyone take this at face value...
I just wanna know, is it wrong of me to wish to be the salami in the middle of this girl sandwich? Does that make me a polygamist? |
Oh, my hubby always said that. One night I picked up a girl to give it a try. He about RAN to the car to get out of there. NEVER said that again. |
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05-31-2009, 11:02 AM
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yeah
I just want to experience a lot of things preferably before i am married or 30. When i meet my future husband I want to get all of those feelings out of my system. I know i am playing with fire cause like my friends told me you might get turned out or you may lose yourself in the whole process. I don't know what to do. Maybe fantazing watching the videos may be a better solution until i'm completely what i'm going to do. Since i've been without my boyfriend i feel so sexually liberated its weird
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05-31-2009, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Driller1
Oh, my hubby always said that. One night I picked up a girl to give it a try. He about RAN to the car to get out of there. NEVER said that again.
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He might have been worried about your sexuality, or that you'd get hurt if it REALLY happened.
No man I know would intentionally pass that up unless something like that were at stake. Or if he thought he wouldn't get a good share of the focus during those events.
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