If you were sexy, would you flaunt it? (clothes, different, relations)

[orangeapple]

No, I wouldn't. I choose my clothes based on style and creativity, not really to look sexy. I think "sexy" in the general definition is often boring & unimaginative when it comes to clothing. I also think the elegance & confidence of modesty is underrated (not in any extreme sense....I'm fine with a short skirt or low-ish neckline if it's not vulgar).

I also dislike exhibitionism. I'm not prudish, but there's something to be said for leaving a bit to the imagination - and trust me, no matter how sexy you are, there are plenty of people who just don't want to see it. Respect our eyes!

I've also noticed that "sexy" for men is often something like a nice suit....they aren't expected to "flaunt" their body at all.

[WheninRoam]

On occasion, and with my significant other around so as not to elicit unwanted advances.

[le roi]

Originally Posted by Weekend Traveler

If you were really sexy, would you flaunt it?

Of course I do, what kind of question is this?

[SeaOfGrass]

What do you mean, "if" I was sexy???

Just kidding.

[Glitterific]

Some of us have no choice. We put on a fitted tee and some shorts because it is hot out, and as soon as we step out the door, the stares and horn-honking start.

So it isn't always flaunting as much as just having a nice body which 'speaks' for itself.

The only time I purposely push the envelope is when bar-hopping. Leave your imagination at the door baby.
J/K.

[Mathguy]

Originally Posted by Weekend Traveler

I have seen lots of women recently who dress like sex sirens. They act sexy, they look sexy and are sexy. They like to flirt, wear low cut dresses, wear short shorts, have a sexy hairstyle, and carry themselves in such a way as to say, I am just so sexy. IT OPENS THEM UP TO LOTS OF RELATIONSHIPS.

A friend of mine is that way and when I asked her about it she said, "if you got it flaunt it" Do you agree? If you were really sexy, would you flaunt it?

Hey, if you are in shape etc. and are looking for a partner\attention whatever who am I to judge? Frankly, if you have the goods and are looking for someone, then dressing and acting (appropriately) is a good route to take.

[Marlip]

being sexy is one thing.
being a trashy person is a different thing.
i believe natural beauty is more attractive than a pair of short shorts or a low cut shirt or dress.
being attractive to yourself should come first.
not some fake little ditsy party girl.

[Ladywithafan]

Originally Posted by Weekend Traveler

I have seen lots of women recently who dress like sex sirens. They act sexy, they look sexy and are sexy. They like to flirt, wear low cut dresses, wear short shorts, have a sexy hairstyle, and carry themselves in such a way as to say, I am just so sexy. IT OPENS THEM UP TO LOTS OF RELATIONSHIPS.

A friend of mine is that way and when I asked her about it she said, "if you got it flaunt it" Do you agree? If you were really sexy, would you flaunt it?

I flaunt my sexy toes in my sexy flip flops

[Mathguy]

I must admit that at the urging of my last (and current gf) I have bought new clothes that fit a lot tighter than the baggy clothes I'd worn for a long long time. I kinda like them...and they remind me that I need to get to the gym on a regular basis. (I guess this makes me a man-ho...oh well)

[LaoTzuMindFu]

Although I "feel" sexy I dont go out and flaunt it. My wife tells me that Im sexy, even some women that I know tell me that Im "sexy" or "attractive" but I know that I do not flaunt it. Not sure how men would go about flaunting sexiness but thats a thread for another time. There is a big difference between feeling sexy and knowing/showing that you are sexy. I guess being a man, women pick up on my self confidence as being sexy. Maybe? I think.