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Is this ok, behind a locked door? I feel a little weird about it since you have to keep quiet, too. And I don't have kids so I don't know what's normal. Will he think Im a bad person if I agree to sex with him (when he asks, not saying Im making the moves , but Im not discouraging him , either) when his daughter (8) is in a room right across the hall?
Are you KIDDING me??? Seriously?????
NO. Never, EVER, is this appropriate. I cannot believe you are even asking the question.
Well, Mommy & Daddy retreating to their own bedroom for a nap is one thing; Mommy or Daddy retreating with an occasionally visiting stranger is quite another... I don't think it's good for the kids and I'd be uncomfortable myself. Then again, I don't want this whole shebang (men with young kids) to begin with for various reasons and that's just one of many bullets on the list.
Parents have sex with children in the house all of the time. If there relationship is such that she has met the child, there's no reason they can't have sex simply because the child is there. As long as they are discreet, of course.
So when you had children Ivory you stopped having sex with your husband. Oh wait you have more than one child, obviously not.
I didn't sleep with someone I was dating with my kids in the house. There is a difference between being married and having sex and just dating and having sex. Which example would you like to model for your daughters?
Parents have sex with children in the house all of the time. If there relationship is such that she has met the child, there's no reason they can't have sex simply because the child is there. As long as they are discreet, of course.
Every man I have ever dated (and they all have been fathers) were very explicit about this - I never even had to tell them - THEY brought it up. They would not ever stay the night, or have sex in my home with my son there, nor would they at their house, with their children. It's called being a responsible parent.
Every man I have ever dated (and they all have been fathers) were very explicit about this - I never even had to tell them - THEY brought it up. They would not ever stay the night, or have sex in my home with my son there, nor would they at their house, with their children. It's called being a responsible parent.
Any man who expected me to have sex with him with my kids here I wasn't married to would be shown the door and told not to let it hit him on the arse on the way out. It, simply, is not proper to be sleeping with someone you're dating when your kids are there.
Every man I have ever dated (and they all have been fathers) were very explicit about this - I never even had to tell them - THEY brought it up. They would not ever stay the night, or have sex in my home with my son there, nor would they at their house, with their children. It's called being a responsible parent.
This is so sad, though. Did you guys spend the night at least when the kids were gone?
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I agree. That little voice is trying to tell her something. Too often we use duct tape to shut it up rather than listen to it.
