How do you say, "I never called back becuz U have a small package"? (male, younger)

[JustJulia]

When wondering whether to tell someone something, think:

1. Is it true?
2. Is it kind?
3. Is it helpful?

Everything you say should be at least two of these things. "You have a small penis" may be true, but it is neither kind nor helpful.

[11thHour]

I'm sorry, but this thread is begging for this video. It's perfect...


YouTube - Huge Vagina

[SookieStackhouse]

Curb Your Enthusiasm is great!

[dave nz]

Just say, "Have you ever thought about trying a penis pump?"

[Asheville Native]

She: "who are you going to please with that little thing"

He: "ME"

[JBT1980]

Is it fair to say almost all women gossip to their friends about their mans size??

[RobE]

Originally Posted by andreaspercheron

The mature and classy thing to do is to simply tell the person that you don't feel you're compatible and wish them luck.

And then giggle to all your girlfriend about how inadequate he was.

[Sunnydee]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Is it fair to say almost all women gossip to their friends about their mans size??

No, I don't think it would be fair to say that. In my entire life not one of my friends has ever commented on that topic, but I guess some women do. It just hasn't been my experience.

[Thursday007]

"I don't do minitures"

[FreeSpirited1]

(I'm sorry if I may be repetitive but it's late & I didn't read the whole thread)

That is where a man lives - as a serial dater, I know these things

You have to lie - make up anything at all - or else just simply say "I'm not feelin' ya" or whatever but no way do you want to pour salt in the wound. Tell him you don't know what you want and it's too confusing to date for the foreseable future.

Bad enough he loses out on you, but if he's not a jackass (in which case he hasn't insulted you intentionally), I say you have to leave the guy with some hope and self-esteem!

Oh and newsflash...it's not like he doesn't know, but it's like balding guys or aging women who wear teen-style clothes...they have to come to terms with it on their own, as we all must do with things we wish were different about ourselves (beauty, age, size, etc.).

P.S. I did see the Sex & the City episode on this issue - Samantha was in love (she never falls in love) but yep, it was too small. She tried to work with it, but after counseling she finally confessed how she felt about his manhood! Not cool in real life, but frickin' hilarious TV!