I live guy in my school I never talked to (guys, love)
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There's a guy at my high school that I really love... he's very handsome! Every time I see him at the hall, I feel my heart! I don't know this guy, and I think he's a senior and I'm a junior. I'm scared to talk to him, because I don't know him. Sometimes I fallow him just so I could show me and I want to see him. I really like him. I don't even know his name. What should I do?
Sry for wrong spellin, it suppose to be like instead of live in the topic.
There's a guy at my high school that I really love... he's very handsome! Every time I see him at the hall, I feel my heart! I don't know this guy, and I think he's a senior and I'm a junior. I'm scared to talk to him, because I don't know him. Sometimes I fallow him just so I could show me and I want to see him. I really like him. I don't even know his name. What should I do?
Sry for wrong spellin, it suppose to be like instead of live in the topic.
nothing ventured, nothing gained.
just say hello, chat with him, ask his name and ask if he's on facebook.
Are you gay? What type of city, state, and school do you go to? Is there a lot of out gay people? Is it socially liberal? Are their support groups?
Most schools are not that way, therefore, you most likely need to get over your crush now. It will only bring you devastating pain and suffering. Most guys in the age group of 12-30 are extremely insecure about their sexual orientation, masculinity, and have some degree of homophobia, some people are insecure forever. Do not go after this guy if he is straight. I warn you. It will lead to disaster. Stop following him and looking at him.
The greatest love and admiration comes from within. If that means you become a bit more narcissistic then so be it. Focus more on you, every aspect that needs to be improved, or developed, then do it. Our society can only provide you with so much, and if you are gay it will provide you with much less opportunity and fairness. Unless you are in a liberal city like San Fransisco, West Hollywood, or Seattle then you might have a better support system.
Also like the other OP said you can introduce yourself to him and see if you can be friends, but I highly doubt it will happen. You will have to keep it non-sexual and platonic. Also don't say you love him, because you do not love him, it is just a crush that you most likely need to get over fast. Most guys aren't gay in high school and will deny it even if they are.
Are you gay? What type of city, state, and school do you go to? Is there a lot of out gay people? Is it socially liberal? Are their support groups?
Most schools are not that way, therefore, you most likely need to get over your crush now. It will only bring you devastating pain and suffering. Most guys in the age group of 12-30 are extremely insecure about their sexual orientation, masculinity, and have some degree of homophobia, some people are insecure forever. Do not go after this guy if he is straight. I warn you. It will lead to disaster. Stop following him and looking at him.
The greatest love and admiration comes from within. If that means you become a bit more narcissistic then so be it. Focus more on you, every aspect that needs to be improved, or developed, then do it. Our society can only provide you with so much, and if you are gay it will provide you with much less opportunity and fairness. Unless you are in a liberal city like San Fransisco, West Hollywood, or Seattle then you might have a better support system.
Also like the other OP said you can introduce yourself to him and see if you can be friends, but I highly doubt it will happen. You will have to keep it non-sexual and platonic. Also don't say you love him, because you do not love him, it is just a crush that you most likely need to get over fast. Most guys aren't gay in high school and will deny it even if they are.
I'm bi...
But it seems like he's looking at me too everytime I'm in the hallway, and sometimes I pretend to not look at him so he don't think anything
That's cool. Gay and bisexual people have a way of knowing when other folks are that way too. Just be sure he isn't scanning the hallway....because people do that too, you need to look for eye contact that lasts longer than 5 seconds, that will tell you if he is friendly. So stop pretending you are not interested by not looking.
Also eye contact that lasts longer than 5 seconds doesn't promise you anything. So don't get your hopes up.
Also can you answer my other questions please. If you are in a school where everybody is primarily Catholic, then you might as well call it a day and give up now.
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Originally Posted by Jose92
I'm bi...
But it seems like he's looking at me too everytime I'm in the hallway, and sometimes I pretend to not look at him so he don't think anything
It depends on the facial expression and body language.
Eye contact, a small smile, and a nod is non-threatening and gives off a pleasant friendly vibe. The OP needs to try that instead of staring the guy down.
Maybe he looks at you because you are STARING at him all the time. I would look at you too and wonder if you were mental.
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