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Old 06-08-2009, 03:55 PM
 
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I dont believe all these studies are 100% accurate,of course if u ask a women would u rather a taller good looking guy or a short guy shed say the tall guy just as if you took a poll of men and said would you rather women with bigger breasts theyd say sure why not doesnt mean they wouldnt go out with women with average or smaller breasts..
There are plenty of men who like small breasts. Google "small breasts Porn" and see what pop up (no pun intended, "pops up"...)

But look at porn for women (Romance Novels) and what do you see? Tall, handsome men. Not a single love story about a short little troll who still has a good heart.

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I would think face is more improtant as a whole then height unless were talking extremes..
Face can be broken down scientifically and studied as well.
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Im sure a 5'7 good lookign guy would get more stares for mwomen the na 6'2 guy whos ugly
Not at all. Besided, I am under 5'7 (I'm 5'2 1/2) No woman is dreaming about me, while there are men dreaming about a woman with little breasts.
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Old 06-08-2009, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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blanked out to protect the sane
How many women do you think fall in love or otherwise desire who they really think they'll want overall? It's a crappy percentage for sure.

You make yourself your own fantasy, if you can show them you have things to offer that aren't "average" or below, you're in. So like I said, get that baggage out somewhere, as it sure won't help you in any aspect of life, romantically or otherwise.
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Old 06-08-2009, 04:34 PM
 
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No idea. I suppose I will simply end up in a loveless marriage with a woman who is secretly dreaming of some tall, dark and handsome fellow who settled for me.

I do not write reality, I simply live in it.
I've attempted to be kind and respectful, and I am sorry you feel resentful. Life is too short to feel unhappy.

But nevertheless, your persistent bitter and self-pitying attitude wouldn't get you anywhere.

I would further suggest you gain some self-esteem and seek to conquer the negative attitudes you hold about yourself.

Tell me, what are your positive points?
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Old 06-08-2009, 04:46 PM
 
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There are plenty of men who like small breasts. Google "small breasts Porn" and see what pop up (no pun intended, "pops up"...)

But look at porn for women (Romance Novels) and what do you see? Tall, handsome men. Not a single love story about a short little troll who still has a good heart.



Face can be broken down scientifically and studied as well.


Not at all. Besided, I am under 5'7 (I'm 5'2 1/2) No woman is dreaming about me, while there are men dreaming about a woman with little breasts.

That's pretty short. You should try 'little people dating'.

Here's one: LITTLEPeopleMeet.com - The Little People Dating Network . I found many more with a quick google search.
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Old 06-08-2009, 04:54 PM
 
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You might be right, but you have to take additional information into account.

1. Women approach men much less frequently than the other way around. This is for a variety of reasons that have been hashed and rehashed on this board.
2. When on the prowl for sex (instead of a relationship), men are more likely to approach any woman who looks like she might say yes. Women are pickier because we can and should be.
OP, take note. Frankly, woman aren't looking to "get laid" in the same, often desperate ways, that men are. Sorry, but that's just nature, bub.

This is SO on the money. Reps for you when I get more, Julia!
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Old 06-08-2009, 04:59 PM
 
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There is a difference between looking with admiration and looking at someone like a "piece of meet". There is a big difference. I just wanted to point that out to the OP.

Also OP if you don't like feeling invisible or looked over by people. They why don't you wear interesting clothes that draw attention? It works for a lot of people.
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Old 06-08-2009, 05:22 PM
 
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There are plenty of men who like small breasts. Google "small breasts Porn" and see what pop up (no pun intended, "pops up"...)

But look at porn for women (Romance Novels) and what do you see? Tall, handsome men. Not a single love story about a short little troll who still has a good heart.



Face can be broken down scientifically and studied as well.


Not at all. Besided, I am under 5'7 (I'm 5'2 1/2) No woman is dreaming about me, while there are men dreaming about a woman with little breasts.
I think youre putting way too much stock in height,you act like any tall man walking down the street is surrounded by women tryin to rape him..

I know tall guys who cant get women and short guys who do, and vice versa,its about the individual..

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Old 06-08-2009, 05:33 PM
 
Location: Orlando, Florida
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Call me simple but, I don't care how a man looks at me....as long as he sends me a drink.
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Old 06-08-2009, 06:42 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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See, the problem unattractive men have is that they feel entitled to and wronged by not getting BEAUTIFUL women. It's not like they give the time of day to women looking like them. Heck, I can't get any man I want, either. It's not the end of the world. It's called reality! We all have some limitations of some nature.
LOL, somebody told me I can have him at any time 'cause he's "any" man. Must've missed a crucial part of the sentence. While his index finger is quite fascinating , even Sierra Shui finds it hard to say what it's attached to, other than to a good photographer (or an owner of a good camera these days...).
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Old 06-08-2009, 07:02 PM
 
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...Won't really comment, as I really can't muster up the enthusiasm to read all of that without my eye's glazing over partially. But I'm sure other's responses to it will rock.
What he said.

Although I think we've had this dispute about believing dubious statistics before.

SO if you think you can or you think you can't you're probably right.

Don't make me go find the thread where we debated the credibility of your statistics again, please. It was mind numbingly boring.

All I know is if you want to spend your life feeling like a loser based on dubious statistics AND sweeping generalizations then you are on the right path. You'll get exactly what you believe. It's entirely your choice.
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