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You should look into your life and see what's lacking to be thinking about this guy. There's a problem when you want to look someone up whose faults you cite here and who never followed up with you after you two parted ways. Find something in your life that arouses your passions and concentrate on that, and you won't be thinking about this loser. Your fantasies or yearnings are creating an unreality of possibilities (or a reality of impossibilities) about this guy.
great post, you're right. I think the main thing is that I worry that I will never find anyone. I feel I have a lot to offer the right guy, but I just can't seem to meet any worthwhile.
And i wonder if the faults I listed are worth ending the whole thing? but I agree that he really didn't even "fight" for me, his pride overcame him, and I guess the same happened with me. I do love to travel and I have other interests, but I can't seem to overcome these feelings right now. I think it's the no real closure.
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Originally Posted by Aylalou
You should look into your life and see what's lacking to be thinking about this guy. There's a problem when you want to look someone up whose faults you cite here and who never followed up with you after you two parted ways. Find something in your life that arouses your passions and concentrate on that, and you won't be thinking about this loser. Your fantasies or yearnings are creating an unreality of possibilities (or a reality of impossibilities) about this guy.
Yes, I'm in Menver, I do meet men, but the issue is meeting men WHO WANT TO DATE/KIDS/MARRIAGE!!!!!! I don't have problems meeting them, I am outgoing, love sports, go to many sporting events, bookstores, travel, museums, yadda, yadda, yadda and still NOTHING!!!!!!!!
Maybe I'm just in the doldrums right now, who knows. But never getting closure is what's bugging me most now.
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I just had to double check before saying this.
But don't you live in Menver? There should be plenty of crying boys who will compete for your attention.
I think that the brooding and the silent treatment was his way of letting you know that he wasn't into you or the relationship anymore. There is no saving a relationship where one partner has fallen out of love with the other one. Just move on.
I dated a guy who had black moods. Had nothing to do with me. He also brooded a lot and later found out he was manic-depressive. I left him; he pursued. He absolutely loved me. Some people are moody. Hard to live with.
yeah, he got moody, almost like a kid you took a bike away from or something. He would settle down eventually, I would igore it of course and watch a funny tv show or talk to my sis, that way he knew that his brooding wasn't affecting me. When he saw I wouldn't resopnd to it, he would snap out of it.
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Originally Posted by Aylalou
I dated a guy who had black moods. Had nothing to do with me. He also brooded a lot and later found out he was manic-depressive. Some people are moody. Hard to live with.
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